Clueless> Gosh.. put some aleo vera gel on your scratch if they have already start to dry. Aleo vera are good for healing the skins. Hope they heal before your AD.
LW> We also don't have meipo. My inlaws wanted to engage one, but my bil told her no need for it cause now modernise already. She always listen to him so til now didnt engaged any. I think our GDL, most likely is.. hb and his brother bring over the stuff only.
Gals.. I want to check about the Angbao giving for the tea ceremony. I heard from my mum that during the tea ceremony, for those single (aka not married) seniors, we (aka the wedding couple) need to give them red packets instead of the senior giving us though we are serving tea to them. E.g. My uncle (dad's brother) who is single, we need to give him the red packet after we serve him the tea. Ermm.. all along, I think so long as more senior than us, will give us red packet. Seems like its different.