yeha, i oso think all those who have new house, esp resale flat + wedding at the same time can really drain all the $ manz...
two of my frens had new hse ready just before their wedding.. damn siong... haizz... but 1 is so stubborn tt we offered to give her some appliances for her hse warming she oso refuse to take... felt v rejected lor.. but well.. everyone has their way of coping with the finances
Well i really cant imagine she oso lost almost 10K frm her banquet. Me and my HB same as them, dont really like to borrow money frm anyone or pay by instalments coz wana be debt free after wedding...
as for me... i m pretty fortunate coz my BTO flat only ready in 2012 so i have alot of time to recover frm the dissavings for wedding. We had enough for the bridal package + AD PG and all the various deposits too - hotel (2K), honeymoon (1K) etc... and also to buy those GDL + 4gold + angbaos for helpers etc thgs for wedding...And we are lucky, the angbaos covered the banquet cost.
nw oso troubled abt when to give birth coz giving birth cost money so does renovation... so if both crash, gg to be straining too... v sian leh... so hopefully i give birth in 2011 and when hse is ready for reno, i recover financially again...
worse, we are helping my PILs to pay for the car nw
haizz... feel like selling it off but then so used to a vehicle nw lor..and selling it away means losing 10K interest... not sure wat to do...