mal,
^5, same thinking, i oso think age is an issue as im getting old and im afriad dat no one wants me, den tis guy comes along n thinks im his angel...haha, so i juz grab liao
koyoyo,
i think it's hard to find smone who can loves u n put u 1st in every priority, i appreciate all d sacrifices he made for me...though i didnt say dat to him (only know how to scold him
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though he's busy these days n there's no firewks or sparks dat i experienced when i was younger but i appreciate d little things dat he has done for me...guz it's called xi shui chang liu, we understand each other's moods n thinking well n most of all, we can tahan each other each's crappiness n i can scold him all i like n he wont retaliate...woah
u must love d person, dat's d most impt thing...bcos when u do, u can overlook d flaws n try to overcomed probs tgr. if u dun, den normally it'll b an excuse to get out of a r/ship...i used to think passion n excitement is impt but after being in a few r/ships, i realised dat stability n security is more impt when u look for a life partner
ultimately it's wat u want n no one can understand u as well as urself, u'll know wat's impt to u in a r/ship. smtimes things r hard to explain but it's simple cos u juz know dat u've found d ONE dat u wana spend d rest of ur lfie wif