I quite upset with my parents.... They were the one who encouraged me and my SO to solemnisation de... then dinner later when we get our flat...
Now, when we are preparing for it.... they complain that how come I don't hold it in church.... not that I do not want mar... my congregation no church building... wrong? then now want me to join another church, get baptised just to have a church building... I mean, that is wrong to me....
Then my parents told me that solemnisation dun invite relatives... cos she say wait like I marry two times...
But my SO inviting all his relatives and close friends too... because to us, that is the most important day of our lives, even more than the dinner..... because we have the blessings from the pastor mar....
My SO was kind of disappointed by their new reactions.... I am too....
Then I requested them to come back earlier, around Dec next year to help prepare for my solemnisation but my parents say that theirs are 6 months visa... so they go back in late Jul, then Jan, just a few days before my solemnisation then come back...
Visa more important?