Hi gugi,
Have you decided on the date that you want to hold your actual wedding? If it is not a hot date, I think you shld be able to book your venue in dec. But if you decided to hold it on 27th Oct, I think you have to act fast. As seen from the table, many ppl are getting married on 27th Oct. And I think according to the "tong shu", 27th Oct is a very gd date and that's why many ppl planning their big day on tt day. =)
Where will you be having ur ROM? Just out of curiosity, which part of the world are you at now? Thanks for offering to lend me your ring pillow. =) I'll be heading down to Bras Basah this weekend to get my ring pillow loh. Where did you get your ring pillow huh or you made it yourself?
Anyway, dun be depress.. Shld be happy tt you are finally planning for your own wedding and not for others this time round! Hehe.. Jiayou!