HI Ladies
Wow the thread flows very fast.
The food tasting session is cancelled cause my mil told my hubby only the male side family need to go for the food tasting. The lady side family don't need and my silly hubby asked me to invite my parents. After that, he called the restaurant and the manager told him if two tables combined (vegetarian and non vegetarian) will cost us $200 a table and we had try some of their dishes before we booked the wedding banquet venue . So we all decided it is ok to cancel the food tasting session. Their dishes are quite good when I tried it last time.
I can see my hubby was very stressed when his mum said don't need to the lady side to go for the food tasting session and i agreed that I will speak to my parents that the food tasting session was cancelled. He smiled and let out a audible sigh. Think he was glad that he got one less thing to worry about.
I also told his mum that since she brought the fridge and the altar for us,she don't need to buy jewellery anymore. And I told her that I am not cantonese also don't need the si dian jin. But don't know why she hears that i need the sian dian ji and shoots me back and said we are haninese, we don't give you sian di ji. So I talked back I mean since u buying the fridge and the altar don't need the jewelley. And my mum has already brought the jewelley for me. I don't need so much. If I want, I can buy it on my own. Then she keep quiet.
Really very siah. everything she also must argue with my family and me, and never hear the words that I said and shoot back at me already. So siah
My mum told her she needs 12 cans of pork rib for the gdl day. But don't know why later my mil called a few months later and said want to change to pork legs cans, my mum remembered the wrong qty and told her need 24 cans lor mix and match u decide. (that is the amount my dad gives to my mum last time), and she wants to argue with me now said how come like that. I was fed up,I told her auntie u fellow the paper, my mum wrote down what thing on the list, you fellow that list. Actually, my mum remembered the wrong figure, that qty 24 is the amount my dad gave to my mum last time and my mil keeps quiet. Even 12 cans of pork leg cans also want to argue, I don't dare to take the jewellery from her. Wait I take got more problem. I rather buy on my own next time. Actually, my mum said gdl items got give can already, don't need to worry about the qty. My mum is very easy going already, don't know why my mil everything also cannot. So funny.
My hubby and me are very stressed, really hope that our wedding day will come soon. So that all these things can come to an end. And we can live happily ever after and ignore all these customs and arguements liao. We are trying to be as happy as possible
Hi Steve
Thanks for ur encouragment. We are doing that now try to do things in our own ways. If things that my mil said, we can do we fellow. Cannot, we will do it our own way. Ignore her black face. Ha Ha Ha
Hi Ceraine
Yeap, we are having both english and chinese songs.
Coresages still waiting for daddy reply to make for me or not, have not spoken to him yet. These few days I am very busy.
For the hongbaos I will tell my friend, if they can't see me to pass to my hubby. For my daddy relatives, they will pass to my parents directly. For my hubby relatives, think they will pass it to him or his mum directly. We want to save the trouble of distributing the hongbaos later. Scared it will become another war zone again. Ha Ha Ha. So we will not have hongbao box for the wedding day.
For the second march in song, I have choose a whole new world for us.
I will forward the under the sea song to u later.
Hi Ladies
By the way, me got a problem. After I burn the 4 songs in the disc. I played the cd on the pc. It can be played. But when I played the cd on a normal pansonic vcd player. It cannot detect the disc. Is it something wrong with my disc??? How come like that ? my songs are in mp3 format. Only 1 song is in cd format. What should I do now? Me really have no idea at all. Can anyone help me? Hee Hee. Thank You very much.
Take Care Ladies and Gentlemen
Regards
Xiaobai1