tingz, believe u heard this saying before, 'lang zi hui tou jin bu huan'. i noe that none of us gals wan such tings to happen...but if it hv already happen and he wanted to be back wif u, then ask urself these few qns
1) Do u still love him?
2) Is ur love strong enough to gif u the courage to believe in him again?
3) Is he worthy of another chance?
4) Is his feeling for u is true?
5) What went wrong that coz 3rd party to interupt into ur relationship? Like if u hv neglected him? etc
6) Did he confess to u and beg for forgiveness first without being find out or if he only do so after the cat is out of the bag?
If ur answer to the above lead to a conclusion that u still love him and believe that he is sincere to u, and u then decide to gif him another chance then i suggest the two of u hv a good talk to reach a common understanding. U muz let him noe how much hurt he hv caused u and if he really dote and treasure u then he will nv do it again.....at times, our tears are our best weapons....use it when necessary....
anyway it is all up to u there is no rule tat bcoz u hv ROM u hv to go ahead wif the AD if there is no love in the relationship. Hope the above will help u...sorry if me too kpo believe u hv also consider all these liao...do take care and drop a msg here or email me at
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