(2004) Brides of year 2004

rainnie

New Member
cooldevil, den bo pianz loh.......u got to find another one as ur jiemei liaoz. Heng she inform u now ....u still got time. Just have to explain to ur new jie mei why u last minute get her loh.
 


coolgirl76

New Member
Hi cheer bear
It quite difficult to ask them to change their evening dress code lor.... most of them might have bought their dress liao....maybe u can persuade them to std in the morning session......

Mi now short of 1 and the wrist corsage now dun know want to give who ..... I also pay say i ask my another frnd to take over her...dun want misunderstanding......
 

rainnie

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Cheer bear, if u dont want them to wear black u have to tell them earlier and not now loh. Coz black dress is the most easiest to find loh. @ least ur cousin shld consult u first ...coz normally black is not wanted to wedding especially when she is ur jiemei loh.
For my case, @ first i tell them no blue for dinner but now i very luan liaoz lah....coz i wanted to change my EG and till now i cannot confirm my EG so HOR i cant restrict any colors hahaha...
 

coolgirl76

New Member
hi rainnie
Dun want lah ..... worst right? If I tell the truth to the one I calling..... She might think...wow now ppl back out liao then call me....like spare tyre...... I dun want to make ppl angry or create any misunderstanding....
 

rainnie

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cooldevil, if u find ur close/best friend to replace i think they wont be angry one loh. Try to explain.....u got how many jie mei now? coz some senior people would look at the number of jie mei & bro u have leh .. and if in total u have 7 or what .. is consider bad luck.
 

skybluegal

New Member
cooldevil,
actualli i asking them to std the morning and not evening coz evening i dont neet any jie mei mah..

rainnie,
yup.. thats wat i am thinking oso wedding where got pple wear black... unless is the evening with crystal etc then still can accept mah and somemore she is my jie mei then now i headache liao.. one is blue and another dunno wat colour and the corsages i order white rose with blue ribbon.. i hope it will match their dress and they like it if not i scare they dun want to wear then die
 

rainnie

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cooldevil, it really depends one lah....u explain some of them is ok. Like for my case, one of the brother can't make it coz need to go Reservist. Den got to find replacement loh. We have 4 bro & 4 jiemei if we din replace it will be 3 bro & 4 jiemei add up will be 7 ...no good loh.
 

rainnie

New Member
Cheer bear, will ur jiemei do that? dont wear the wrist corsage? I order for my jie mei hor ... i think they will wear right :p
if they dont wear its very wasted leh....coz u spend the $$ to buy it just for that day mah.
 

rainnie

New Member
Cheer bear, ya.....must be even....coz odd is not very lucky i think. But depends lah...some ppl hack care one. Or have different thinking.
Eg: 3 jie mei & 3 bro = 6 + bride & groom = 8
 

skybluegal

New Member
rainnie,
hahaha... one of the xiong di oso cant attend our wedding liao coz he going for oversea attachment send by boss and will not be back in time.. now my hb having headache to find another replacement
 

coolgirl76

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I have 6 jiemei and 6 xiong di..... now I have 5 jiemei..... It ok lah... in front of u they might not say anything lor...... I dun think is right to find a replacement now lor...esp I have dress code for my jiemei...
 

fleurg07

New Member
oh sorry.. please ignore my message above..hhehhe i tot ur wedding is next sunday
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pai sei

Glad to hear u had fun ....
 

rainnie

New Member
cooldevil, its up to u lah .. but jus giving u some suggestion loh :p when is ur AD ah? From the below list I cant find ur name leh.....

List of December Brides (2004)
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2nd - White Orchids (In Wedding, Le Meridien, Hougang)
2nd - Inlove (Kowloon, Oriental, Punggol)
2nd - Winterhakone (BV, Fullerton, Punggol)
2nd - JG/newyjg (Sheraton Towers)
2nd - Joelle/moonny (GHA, Amara)
2nd - Shayne(TW, Shangri La)
3rd - Smallonion (Everbliss, Concord Hotel)
3rd - bynne (Sophia, Oriental, Tampines)
5th - Twinkeleglint(Whitelink, Pan Pac, Woodlands, berryhappy, earnest video)
5th - Meagan (Qings Bridal, Noble House, Sengkang)
5th - Wise (Inwedding, RTC, Jurong)
6th - gannk (Le Meridien)
8th - LingLing (Bridal Concept, M Hotel, moomedia, AMK)
9th - secret garden (Divine,Conrad, Telok Blangah, Hilarion, Ernest Video)
9th - lichristin (Novotel Apollo, Punggol)
9th - pochacco (Golden Horse, Westin, Sengkang)
11th - MTDT (Santiago,M Hotel,Sam Photography,Punggol)
11th - Owl (White Link, Le Meridien, Yishun)
11th - Squirt (Milan, Pan Pac, Bukit Panjang)
11th - Lynn Chua (Fame Bridal, River View, Yew Tee)
12th - Oraia (BV, Grand Hyatt, Jurong West)
12th - neece (Margaret's, M Hotel, Seng Kang, Avail Lite)
12th - KPO Lady (Paris, Pan Pac, Seng Kang)
12th - Zhuzhu (Camellia, Carlton, Tampines)
12th - Lovey(Divine, Merchant Court, Bishan)
12th - eVon (GHA, OCC, JW)
12th - postpet2(Fullerton)
12th - Priscilla (Free Lance, Hotel New Otani)
12th - poohie(freelance, Pan Pac on 13Dec)
14th - Irenes (Milan,Pan Pac, Woodlands)
15th - Sally/Bluemoon (Everbliss, )
16th - Soupie (JLC, Trader's Hotel, Bedok)
16th - dearie (BridalVeil, Grand Hyatt)
17th - Babu ( , Beaufort)
17th - Shern (Silver Cloak, Rasa, Queenstown)
18th - Fanny (Jawn,Raffles the Plaza,Seng Kang)
18th - Coolsnow (French bridal, Prima Tower)
18th - wheredreamscometrue ( BV,Marriott)
18th - limay (Precious Moments, Grand Hyatt)
19th - Trisha (Swissotel)
19th - Jasline (Htl rendevous, Holland)
19th - Doremon (Santiago, SK)
19th - Puzzlerain (Paris, Hyatt, Seng Kang)
19th - Christine (Bridal Concept, Hilton, Bedok)
19th - bear76 (TWD, Merchant Court, Punggol)
19th - joan (Marriott, Pasir Ris)
19th - kaitlynn (French Bridal, Marina Mandarin, Wdlands)
19th - haloya (Vanity, Grand Hyatt, Punggol)
19th - zann (Julia Wedding News)
19th - Ah ger (Popular, Oriental, A. Dai, Mirage, Bt Panjang)
21st - brambles (GHA, Pan Pac)
22nd - Circusbugs (Popular,Grand Hyatt, Bishan/Hougang)
24th - Fi Fi (Wedding News,Crown Prince, Punggol,earnest video)
24th - Bao Bao (BZ, Pan Pac, Bukit Panjang)
24th - jess27 (Noble House, Dang)
25th - Hayashi (Sophia, GWC, KimTian)
25th - Cruise ( , no banquet)
26th - Wendy 76 (Fullerton Hotel)
26th - Bunnygirl (Seletar Boardway,Imperial Courts,Punggol)
31st - Chobits (Conrad Hotel, Queens)
31st - Jean (Sophia Wedding,Park Royal Grand Plaza, Bukit Panjang)
 

littlegirl

New Member
wa seh - u 2 arh.......... chatted non stop leh.

I went for a short mtg nia.

Rainnie - if I give the one who's helping me in the day only also $38, then isn't it unfair to the other gals who r helpin me out whole day?

Then arh - my helpers are 3 frens + 2 sis (real sis). bt my 2 sis wun b following me out, they r only involved in the gate crashing. I m giving my sis $28 each also.

My 3 frens will follow me out then hb's side got 4 xiong dis, + his cousin who is our small aunt. So ttl will still b 4 gals 4 guys.
 

rainnie

New Member
Ah ger, ur side very Luan leh hahahaha.
Ermm what i know is normally even if ur cousin or real sister is helping with the gate crashing they wont get any $$$ one mah. Its only ur jiemeis that will get it loh. But if u wanna give its OK. The one who will be helping u only in the day if u give lesser amount like very weird bo? What if they discover....it will be $10 difference ... to make every one in the day happy .... why not just give the same? As for the night one .... get lesser becoz hor .. day one ... bo air con leh..have to run here and there. And night time .. just have to be there for the recept & got aircon .. hahaha get lesser is ok lah
Some more...day one got to wake up early! hehe

Alot of excuse hor!
 

coolgirl76

New Member
Hi rainnie
I left abt 20days to my AD. Guys more easier to talk ..... girls abit difficult lor.....

Hi cheer bear
Then no choice lor...... but hor most ppl wont wear black in the morning one lei..... my gf a bit funny.
 

skybluegal

New Member
rainnie,
seriously, thats wat i planning to do.. i will cut $6 from their ap which i use to pay for the corsage

ah ger,
then it depend on u liao lor.. but i think is more fair by giving more $$ to those help full day one
 

littlegirl

New Member
Rainnie

No wor, cos last yr when my sis got married, we also got a share in the gate crashing AP, so tats y I m including my sis also lor.

Oh, maybe lor........... aiyah, will go hme & arrange again.
 

rainnie

New Member
Cooldevil, urs is when? 12 Dec?
Will ur gf be going out with u? to ur hb side? Joke with her .. say ... wear black hor day very hot one .. under the sun....why not change ur black to night time .. heheh
 

rainnie

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Ah ger, ic....anyway they are ur family members its ok one lah. I'll be sponsoring my real sister & cousin bro 2 hotel rooms. Den my mom told me .. when i go back to niang jia got to give ap wor to my parents, sister & grandparents. Hahahaha funny hor :p but i'm ok coz they will be helping me out for that day.

I'm quite blessed with APs .. hehehe @ my GDl my 3 uncles gave me ap & my grandma & mama....
 

rainnie

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Ah ger, paisay ah.......recently neber take plane to any where only been to bintan & misa this yr. So can't help on tiger airway thing....

If no food on board shld be ok lah .. since its a short journey mah. As long as the plane is Safe can liaoz ba?
 

skybluegal

New Member
ah ger,
y use tiger airline when there r better and other cheaper airline like silk air and other one i cant rem the name liao... better use a safer airline (thats wat i think)
 

rainnie

New Member
if it is by SIA shld be safe one loh. Have u heard of any plane crash before with Tiger airways? If no ....shld be ok lah...hehehe
Anyway dont think there is a 100% safe plane in the world!
 

mtdt

Member
Wow.. so many "Free" pple..
i join in also.. :p

I am one of those giving AP to the hotel pple (Banquet coordinator, watiers & watiress etc)
It's true that we paid for their services, but the AP is just a small gift. think after splitting, each only getting like $4 or something.

Just the same reason why we are giving MUA, driver, photographer AP on top of the amount that they charge for rendering their services mah... same rite??

Furthermore, my uncle who works in the hotel says, pple who gives AP to the staff, usu have better services as the watiers/watiress also happier mah..
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rainnie

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Today mi still can come in chit chat with u...tomolo cant le....Just kena activated to go on a mission hahahahaaaaaa....tomolo will be a sian day for me COZ no internet access @ that work place. So try to come in in the evening to kpo abit hehehe....
 

coolgirl76

New Member
hi rainnie
ya mine is 12 dec .... errr... are u referring to cheer bear huh? My jiemei am wear white lei not black....

cheerbear
heard b4 tiger airway but never travel with them
 

mayng

New Member
lol flora.. u blur with time manz.. kekekek

seabreeze: pls dun mention.. cos u paid for it too.. just a service. hope u never kena big damage on the nite.
 

skybluegal

New Member
ah ger,
no food nvm one la as long as safe... veri fast will reach liao see tv lor... last time i go BKK is SIA then veri fast one.. eat, see tv then reach liao..

mtdt,
even u give to the hotel pple u give b4 the dinner or after?? if after then how they know they getting ap and serve u better during the dinner???
 

rainnie

New Member
cooldevil, hahah mi luan liaoz :p

MTDT, I have another way of talking ;D
u see ah .. mua, photographer & driver have to travel outside leh. Like MUA, they have to come to our house & hotel to help us makeup. With their makeup tool box ... very heavy mah. Den photographer & driver have to be under the sun....to take photo for us lah ... or bring us from place to place.
But hotel staff.. they dont have to loh. And if u give AP, u dont just give one. How would u know how many waiter/waitress they have :p
U consider that as TIPs right.....

This is what I think. But its up to oneself whether to give or not ;D coz no matter what they have to use their best service to serve our guest even if we dont give AP loh. Dont u think so?
 

mtdt

Member
Hmm, Rannie - u also have ur point. Tat's why driver, MUA, photographer etc have bigger AP loh! hee hee..

Anyway we are planning to give before the dinner, when discussing with the coordinator.
After dinner, dun think we are sober enough to do anything! hahaha

Best Services - of cos, they shd be at their best services as this is their job. But knowing human nature, it is always not the case... :p
Actually, I told my uncle, who is in the hotel line, give such a small AP, not paiseh meh? Scarely they say, so small, dun give better!! But he says, won't leh.. most of the time, they are happy just simply becos they feel appreciated.

but of cos, up to individual lah..
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rainnie

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MTDT, my nick is Rainnie not Rannie...heheheh
U got check how many waiter /waitress they have? If not how u know how much to give each? Abit kpo lah .. hahaha
 

hakida

New Member
AIyo,

U all talk so much tmr,i cannot catch my breath liao...I only know u all talking abt giving AP to staffs of the htl....For me,i think no need to give waiter or waiteress lah,I will just buy a small gift for my co-ordinator.....
 


hakida

New Member
Ah Ger,

u will be giving ur two sister AP also????My mum tells me to give all my cousins $4 each can already.I have 12 cousins to give.My two sisters,i will just give the door clasing AP.Coz,i already buy them their dresses for day and nite liao..
 

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