Hi there, germ!
heehee, that's also something cute and memorable... but hope u took a photo of that bouquet?
Abt the ang bao thingy, i'm totally confused too...
Just do watever they asked for lah, piper, if your MIL never mention ang baos for shoes, then dun bring it up... scarly u confuse her also, heehee! Yeah, my GDL was a mad frenzy of last minute phone calls... but like dat then exciting mah, hohoho!
We set off to distribute the cakes and cards around 10am, went to abt 15 houses, and we managed to finish by 5.30pm... phew! Some of the elders we had to chit chat with them for a while, while other relatives we didn't go into their house, just pass them the cakes and cards at their door... wow, and u only returned home at 11.30pm! Must be real tired huh? Do rest well okie?
Actually i think u need not worry abt your father's relatives not turning up, relatives usually take weddings seriously, even if they can't make it, they will probably get another family member as representative... i think it's the not-so-close frens or colleagues who may forget your wedding and pardon me for saying this, but there are people who try to siam weddings... so u may wish to concentrate on getting the RSVP done, rather than worry abt your relatives' attendence.... keep ya cool, just let your father handle?