Halo cynthia dear
of course me not mind lah. u did tell me at the other thread that u will post here mah.
My mum told me that distribute cake usually is bride side one. groom side no need to distribute cake. ??? anyway, is dsitributing cake(guo li) the same as "lupchai" (in cantonese)?? tot it's diff day and thats when groom side will bring goodies to bride side and bride mum will return most of it and take the remainder.
WHA diamond set!! chinchai lah, "ho ge bo" (like me)
no have cos MIL say wedding must have GOLD !!! diamond or white gold like not lucky.
ok lor.
I also saw my sidianjin on sat when i went to hubby's house to show his mum the wedding card hotstamping effect that we are using.
It's gold but design quite trendy. got little heart shapes around the whole chain. got chain, bracelet, necklace, earring and ring. told my hubby to tell them me no ear hole to wear earrings but they still buy me!! haiz. abit old fashion hor.
anyway, have to wear one lah. like it or not at least to show them (and other guest) that your MIL got buy you something.
How does this Choz cakes look like? is it one whole piece or smaller pieces?? my mum told me must buy those pc by pc type. normally whole cake is for baby delivery. heehee buy nowadays cos of convenience we buy whole cake. incase it got messer by the time we distribute the last relative!!
So many traditions hor. didnt remember my mum gave my bro in law gifts?
Ya, u can always set aside a day to go home to stay. thats what my sis has been doing since she got married. she will come to stay at our house every sunday. eat dinner too.
so probably in future i will do the same so that it will be our little reunion every sunday lor.
btw, do u need a special timing for the guo li??