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    Need serious advise

    What debts did you incur? Can try being a property agent.
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    Does she like me or simply treating me as a backup?

    Hi folks, Am in a complicated situation right now. Met up with a JC friend a few months ago - she was my crush and soon rekindled the feelings I had for her, but she's currently attached. Her r/s is not very stable and she is working hard to salvage it. She told me to wait for her till a...
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    How to salvage a marriage

    Hi there, If your husband truly loves you, his love won't "die" simply because you quarrel with him over such a trivial incident. In fact, he should feel flattered that you choose to kick up a fuss over it. But since you are pregnant now, surely your husband should spend more time doting...
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    Would you accept your husband being a "buddy" to a female colleague?

    @Glamour: I think the line has been crossed in your case. Unlike girls, guys are not too distressed by emotional infidelity meaning that it is acceptable to them to have feelings towards more than one girl at the same time. Your hb may think he is only a friend to her now, but feelings may...
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    So messed up

    @Reddy: If you still have feelings for your HB and wants to stay together with him for life, then you should cut off all contacts with this guy forever so that he can move on. You must be fair to both parties. What's the point of replying to him when you know that he is treating you more than...
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    What's on her mind?

    @sianz81: The best way to forget her is to tackle another girl. Come on, why give up a tree for the entire forest out there?
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    Shld I postpone ROM?

    @MissyYee: You'd better seriously consider if you want to be with him. Postpone your ROM indefinitely...
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    What's on her mind?

    @sianz81: It is obvious that she treats you only as a spare tyre. When she is on good terms with her bf, she will dump you by the side. Only when she has problems with him will she confide in you. Don't you get it? She doesn't love you at all. If she has any feelings for you, she will...
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    About Decree Nisi Absolute and Remarrying

    @Blur For those with no outstanding issues such as flats or alimony.
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    About Decree Nisi Absolute and Remarrying

    @Jefferson: If they have a flat to settle, then it will take longer as the court needs to decide how to split the proceeds between them. In this case, it will probably take more than 6 months.
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    About Decree Nisi Absolute and Remarrying

    Don't think you need to wait for 9 months. If the divorce is not contested by either party, it can be finalized after 3 months.
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    What's on her mind?

    @sianz81: Wake up! This girl is obviously taking you for a ride. She is going out with you because she feels lonely. Once she gets back together with the other guy, she will kick you aside immediately!
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    Qns for the professionals ..Do you work hard or are you lucky?

    @Stannzza: Science and arts degrees are considered general degrees. vios: nope, i'm a professional.
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    Qns for the professionals ..Do you work hard or are you lucky?

    @Tomato I am in the biomedical industry. It's quite tough for graduates with general degrees nowadays especially with the increased competition from foreign workers.
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    Anyone managed to salvage marriage?

    There's no reason to stay. He has betrayed you once and it will happen again and again. How can you trust him ever again after this? Please pluck up the courage and file for divorce. Dragging the marriage will only bring more suffering to you and him.
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    Qns for the professionals ..Do you work hard or are you lucky?

    1) Less than 5 years, pay > $200,000 annually. 2) a and b: being smart is one thing, I have to work like a dog to get to where I am today. 3) Remember your mistakes and don't ever make them again! 4) Depends on your qualifications. If yours is a general degree, then good luck. You can...
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    Planned divorce...

    Poitto, Your husband's reaction is perfectly normal. He is just treating you as a physical object when having sex with you - totally no feelings involved.
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    Unfaithful husband

    @Cindy: It's all excuses. A man who truly loves his wife will not hurt her. If he succumbs to temptation so easily now, what makes you think he won't repeat the same mistake years later when you are old? You are only deceiving and torturing yourself if you continue in the marriage. It is a...
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    So messed up

    @Reddy: Why not take 4 weeks off and cool down first? You will not be able to think clearly and make a decision when you are so emotional now.
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    So messed up

    Reddy, nobody in the right mind will want to be two-timing or be a third partner, but can you and him control your feelings? Human beings are pretty good at deceiving oneself. Can you dare say that you see him only as a friend and vice versa when both of you are together? If you are 100 percent...

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