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Wow that's 'cheem' admitedly i didn't read that deep into the posts. oh well ...

What I meant by flaw here is your argument so far is rather weak. But does not mean that argument is wrong. Hence I said there is a difference between the 2 words. Like I said what you do and how you do it is entirely your business. Even if I think you are wrong what is wrong for me...

Flaw and wrong are different

Like you said we are here to share opinion. Ok ok it is MY opinion that there is a Flaw in your argument ... But i not judging you. I am commenting. You can have a grand wedding or a simple one it's none of my business. Iris, I am not referring to the value of the angpow but the act of...

Lya, Doll was not ranting. She was pointing out a flaw in your argument. When I got married finances were very tight so we had a very small casual wedding with only immediate family members and family friends. Finances are tight for them as well. We paid the wedding ourselves and asked for...

My husband once said to me that he is glad to be able to 'pay back' his parents for raising him all these years. He said he wasn't an 'easy' child to raise!!! Haha

My husband is a Caucasian. He had never heard of filial money until we lived together. I guess filial piety wasn't a big thing in their culture? When I told him I give my mother a token sum every month he was very touched by the gesture. He asked if we can do the same for his parents. Of...

just enjoy & appreciate each other's company. this is your first relationship, take it slow and savour each moment

Hi, I am also looking for a contractor to do my kitchen sliding door. Pls PM me. Thanks!

Hi Powder, it was the HR who called. I'm not so VIP lah! Supposed to meet the hiring boss before year end, so I'll make a decision only after the final interview. They are not the only ones doing the interview, I am interviewing them too. To be honest, what you have said so far, has...

the only attraction of the offer was the money. more money only means we get to fulfil our dreams sooner. the job scope is the same - can i do well in it, yes. but will i learn anything different in this job - no. will i find joy - well, i'll find out. i know these days there is no...

Christmas to me is just another holiday. Why spend money & get crap in return?? I don't do gift exchange as a principle these day, even if someone gives me a present, I just say 'thank you'. Thats it.

powder, you said "do not fear the unknown, if u already know the Known, n u know that u dun like the Known, then maybe the Unknown might be a better deal. having a 50/50 chance is better than killing any chance with your mind." - that's exactly what my husband said to me at our dinner on Friday...

no worries powder. my husband & i just had a long talk over dinner. & guess what - i have decided to quit by the end of january, not because i want to procrastinate but i want to finish my current project & my boss will be in town at that time. i definitely dont want to resign...

another thing that i want to add is - as much as i want to listen to that inner voice - to just do it, at the same time another voice that shouts "what if?? what if everything falls to pieces? what if you are still unhappy? then what?" have i become so complacent that i no longer to dare to...

Thanks Powder. Right now, i can safely say, that i am no longer interested to 'pay my dues.' i think i paid that over the last 20 years. i got to where i wanted now, & frankly, i am disappointed. that so-called pot of gold at the end of the rainbow is nothing short of a pot of dirt. i...

that's interesting. i am right now at the cross-road of my life. i am in a job where i am unhappy, i am sick of the office politics, sick of living in fear quarter to quarter if i will be next on the retrenchment list. maybe i am tired, maybe i am burned out. after all, i've been doing what i...

So its you who wants your mother to go out not your mother. I think its you who needs to get a life and leave your mother be. The suggestions from the forummers here will be good for you.

Cuclainne, maybe she's envious of you? A friend of mine was like that too, borrows so that she can maintain her lifestyle of designer clothes, bags, shoes, clubbing. Still, debts eventually caught up with her. I dont get this 'keeping up with joneses'.

Oic Iris I didnt know people use FB to 'catch' third parties.