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    Finding it hard to accept the truth but what is the truth?

    You guys aren't even dating exclusively and he doesn't like you to talk to or go out with other guys? And, on top of that, says that the two of you can only be FRIENDS? It's not that he doesn't know how to say 'no'. He just wants you to hang on to him. He loves the ATTENTION from you...
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    To go or not to go

    To Sunnyflower: Yup, I agree with your post. That's why I used the phrase 'seems like'. I just wanted her to ask herself if her feelings for him had diminish, that's all. Maybe I didn't manage to communicate it properly.
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    To go or not to go

    " I sat alone in the hall where we held our wedding ceremony 3 years ago, a lot of fond memories; it’s a joyful and blissful day. I don’t know why but I left with a heavy heart and a doubtful feeling." I don't know. Seems like you don't love him anymore. The memories of your wedding are...
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    To go or not to go

    Oh. One more thing. It seems that you were and are not prepared for marriage then and now so, why marry your companion in the first place? You're wasting your companion's youth.
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    To go or not to go

    1) "How can he tell such thing to his mom? He is really a moron." - Seems to me that you are belittling your husband (and your unborn baby). He knows how he's being treated by you over the past three years. He is nothing in your eyes. 2) "I was not very happy with his reaction which I think...
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    Poor Mid income guys in their 30s not getting married

    I had a long list when I was in uni. One of my friends who wanted to help me find a bf then wrote the list on two pieces of receipts that were about 10 cm long each (she wanted to see if any of her friends fit the bill). Ha ha... Of course, that list was thrown into the dustbin when I met my htb. :P
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    Poor Mid income guys in their 30s not getting married

    Being rich or poor doesn't matter. What matters is that both are financially stable and/or prudent. Doesn't mean that one can't get married with a $3k+ salary. You can do that with careful planning. One of my friends got married last year even though they were financially tight with not much...
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    How to salvage a marriage

    does he know that you're pregnant?
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    Which One Do You Prefer (meant for ladies)

    if a guy's gay, he won't be going after a gal, right?
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    Share your Love Story!

    i agree with hweebs. maybe i wasn't really specific about it in the last post and failed to mention that we got back together after resolving the issues. sorry about that. :P
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    Share your Love Story!

    it depends on the experiences that they have. let's say we're talking about a guy who's about 30 but had gone through a lot (e.g.: supporting his family, been through financial crisis, blah blah blah...), he would be more mature than a guy who's about 40 but his life happens to be smooth...
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    Share your Love Story!

    we were together for a short while before something cropped up on his side and we split. can't remember how long exactly but it was like 7 - 8 months? all i remember is that those months seemed like years. both of us suffered. he was worse off. two groups of friends offered me two different...
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    Will he be back?

    "i'm not even confident of getting over him in a year." don't give yourself a specific time frame. when it's time, you'll know. trust yourself and relax.
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    Share your Love Story!

    to choey: if it's fated, your bf will come back to you. mine did. but you have to let things go first. don't place very high hopes on your bf coming back to you. otherwise, you'll be emotionally drained. i went through that before and it's very tiring, much to the extent of almost going into...
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    How do you know you stand a chance?

    to TS: let nature takes its course. relax and go with the flow. if you keep going after her and forcing her to go out on dates with you when she's not ready, she might just shut herself up like a clam...
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    Heart bleeding

    that means my htb is having an easy life cos i let him do most of what milo and sm have posted, save for the few that he doesn't do or is by nature, haha...
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    Do you get pick up on the street?

    not just chinatown. bedok central even. i was heading to the bus interchange one bright sunny afternoon. i was about to walk past Giordano when some guy (dunno local or what) zipped past me on a bicycle and said “å°å§ï¼Œä½ å¾ˆç¾Žã€‚†(miss, you are very pretty.) i was only wearing a super old...
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    A TRUTH after a 3 years seperation in a marriage

    He is ALREADY OVER you. When he wanted to separate in 2007, he WAS ALREADY OVER YOU. Why waste your precious time pining for someone who won't do the same for you? He has his own life and he's enjoying it. It's for you to have yours. What's the point of showing him that you are miserable? It...
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    In love with A married man ...

    "I have seen married mans sleeping with my frens and classmates. Its being common already. Jus be statin the fact, everytime for 30 years see the same face and same body also will get bored. Sometimes see hot face and sexy body will get turn on. When they het (get) turn on, they will lust."...
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    In love with A married man ...

    not just sex slave. you're a spare tyre too. to him, you're just a willing party who satisfy his sexual needs without question. he already has the upper hand in which he leaves you guessing his true feelings and intentions. don't go thinking that giving a man sex will tie him to you. i won't...

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