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I told him not to target on my parents now that he had almost sucked up my money.he claimed its for our future.i "admire" his courage to say that to me.i told him off that even if i wanna venture i would use my own money.i have to admit i am not a wise person its better i jus remain single. i...

I lived in self denial all along just like anyone other gals who want to give it another shot but after all these while it is already proven everything so much.I dont wish to affect myself but i really feel so hurt every now and then.. the worse is thinking how much he didnt love me enough...

Initially i did believe he wasnt this sort of person and told i would help out but he still has to look for a job.little did i know he took my words so real that he is expecting me to help him along the way and making zero effort to find a job.he even told me off yesterday i was the one...

i am not trying to press him down but i did told him he had no right to make any noise that i am being selfish because he isnt contributing anything and he can jolly well stop lying he aint those typical man who lives off a woman because he is doing it all now and tested and proven.i dono wheres...

yes i do realise i am not the lady he wants tho he kept saying i am the one for him,and true enuff if i were the one for him i believe he would wanna work hard together to tide over instead of stretching his hands and sitting his ass on the sofa.its not only me who is commenting on him even his...

Yes i felt like i am his mother

he is also looking for his ideal job and refuses job because the wage is low but true enough he is earning zero by waiting and he can do so unless he is not depending on anyone or doing a part time job.He cannot take hardship and he was introduced a job that paid well but it was a manual job...

no we dont live together but jus few blocks away and yes i do think that he cannot fend for himself and let alone setting up a family.I am always giving him excuses that i am studying therefore unable to meet him but actual fact is i am minimising the chance to spend my hard earned money for...

kessie - he isnt only expecting me but his granny ... i am dumb founded whenever she ask me abt him ... he wasnt like this before i dont know why he is becoming someone i dont know... i feel as tho he is a stranger to me

Jinnous- yes i told him d same i dont believe my parents would want me to marry off this way n tho i had been hiding from em abt him being jobless but i cant get past my own gate.I told him i dont want to be packing n crying over spilt milk to my family and he said i was a drama queen.he is jus...

Hi thanks all for your replies ... freesia - he quitted and then got terminated now choosy over job ... i dont think he can ever come up with a solid reason to back up for all nw because i am equally tired and as i told him no one likes to work but we need the salary to survive... its beginning...

Hi all i am new to this site, i saw this forum n i really hope to get some advice.My so n i been together for 3 yrs. Life turned upside down when he become jobless for 6 mths and i have been paying for everything now and the fact he doesnt seem to be trying hard enough makes me feel like it is...