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    False Eyelashes

    Hi BTB or married ladies. My BS is charging me $25 for a bottle of ampoule and $25 for 1 set of fake eye lashes. For Photoshoot, AD morning and AD night makeup, this will set me back by $150. I was thinking of getting my own fake eye lashes so as to save on some costs and pay the BS only...
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    Bed for heavier people?

    Hi Juliet 50, May I know what brand of bed did you buy?
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    Bed for heavier people?

    hi people. just wanna seek some views and suggestions. would be good if folks can share their experiences. i am looking for a marital bed soon. just wondering, for folks who tend to be on the heavier side, what do you look out for when you are buying a bed? also, what are some of the brands...
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    A Meeting place for all Plus Size Brides

    would like to find out, are there any plus size brides ( ard Dorothy Perkins size 16), who DID NOT go for MTM? means took OTR for all the WG and EG which were amended from other plus size brides' MTM gowns. I am on super tight budget and I am really do not wish to spend on MTM gowns for one...
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    What makes you happy in a marriage once the honeymoon is over?

    I guess to me, being happy in any relationship, is to be able to just be there for the person. In my case, we are just both very simple people. Just being there for him, listening to him, talking to him, hugging him or just simply sending him a sms to show that i care, will make him feel happy...
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    Staying with the in-laws

    HBH, it is very encouraging to see that you are doing so much to bridge closer ties!! at least you are willing to take steps and efforts to bring ur in laws closer to ur parents. not many ppl can do that.
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    Costs of Marriage - how do u spilt?

    agree with powder. i can afford to pay for all expenses, does not mean i want to or i am willing to pay for all of expenses. and best part, the guy has aldy been paying for her every time they go out on dates. i believe, they shld be earning the same amt. but when he has been paying for her...
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    Costs of Marriage - how do u spilt?

    yup. agree... for me, what i think is. once we get married, everything will be shared, not just the good and sweet times, but also the bills, expenses and etc. so even if my hubby pays for all the wedding expenses, it would just mean that he has less money for "us". and to me, what used to be...
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    Staying with the in-laws

    yup.. i used to keep thinking that it is us DILs that will accomodate and endure and tolerate. well, those horror stories that we hear abt MIL have to be true to a certain extent rite? i have tried looking for positive, happy and good examples of MILs, but it is quite hard to find. but it...
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    Costs of Marriage - how do u spilt?

    Just wanna get some feedback, how do you guy spilt up the wedding expenses with ur HTB or WTB? I hv a friend , who has the mentality, that the guy shld foot ALL wedding expenses.
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    Staying with the in-laws

    one more here!!! i have no choice but to move in with my MIL and SIL (no bf) when i get married. he is the only son, the current flat is under his name. so i just move in. for me, of cos i am scared and worried, but i try my best to think positive. think no reno loan, think home cooked food...
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    (2009) Brides of year 2009

    hey ladies... these are my details... AD : 28th Nov 209 Venue : Peony Jade Clary Quay Bridal Studio : La Belle Couture Date of PS : prob in May / June 09 AD PG : Marcus (free lancer) AD VG : don't think getting.
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    Advice : Things to look out for when choosing bridal package

    Hi Jiahui, can you provide me with the package details of aisle Bridal? i live very nearby and would like go just pop by for a look. [email protected]. thanks.
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    Do you give money to parents in laws?

    hi oolong.. maybe you can share with us on your experience with staying with in-laws? i tried to google la, search la, always fail to find something that is positive about staying with in laws! maybe you can share with us your positive experiences? i do agree that there are nice and not so...
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    Do you give money to parents in laws?

    haha.. no choice.. i am stuck.. cannot help it.. if i could, i also hope to maintain a distance. but i can't. i am hoping to actually delay our marriage and moving in together. but wedding costs are getting so expensive these days. at least i hope to delay moving in, for another 2-3 years...
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    Anyone currently attached/married to a SAF regular?

    Hi Sylvaz, Maybe before you actually marry him, I would suggest, if the situation permits, for you to move over to his house and live with him for a period of 3-6 months, to "test waters". Does he live with his parents now? if he does live with his parents now and if you will be moving in to...
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    Do you give money to parents in laws?

    LOL... haha... yes true true... somehow i have a feeling that we don't see, don't know and don't say, also wun help. haha
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    Do you give money to parents in laws?

    one more thing... people are very sensitive towards money issues, unless they are the super rich kind. so, regarding money, i will be super careful. for my own parents, i don't even dare to reduce anything. any reduction, would be the expenses for myself. that is why, after working for 5...
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    Do you give money to parents in laws?

    Faith and icechoco, i totally agree with your points on how once you start giving, cannot even reduce the amount, much less totally don't give! i guess PIL and even our own parents have a tendency to equate giving money as a sign on filial piety and a sense of security. especially if they...
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    Do you give money to parents in laws?

    lol.... yes, if my HTB is rich enough to give 1k, i also won't bother so much. too bad, we are not. anyway, if a son can give his mother this much, u decrease the amt, end up more often then not, the mother will think that its the DIL that make the HB decrease the amt lo. either way, DILs are...

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