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    Fengshui & bazi reading / Kwan yin ma lots

    Often, when you see a fortune teller, most will always advise you to buy some items to avoid those misfortune. And the items can sometimes be very expensive eg few thousands dollars. Just want your opinions, do you think we can believe?
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    Is my marriage drifting apart?

    lancer Sorry, I dont get you. What do you mean by not for him.
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    Is my marriage drifting apart?

    Hi gals I have a question. What do you think of guys who are married but yet does not like to put on his wedding ring? Is this a sign that he does not put the marriage to heart?
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    Is my marriage drifting apart?

    Yappie, I cannot say I am very very happy now with him bcos I have resentment towards him (for a few things that I am not happy with and he is not going to change). But one thing I know is I dont want to give up this marriage at this juncture.
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    Is my marriage drifting apart?

    Two "married singles" living under the same roof Hi doll, I know where you are coming from. I thought so too. I am afraid that he only treat me as a kin rather than his lover. This is my greatest fear but he always said I think too much. Yesterday night, we have a long talk again after 2...
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    Is my marriage drifting apart?

    Hi Virginmobile Thanks for sharing your experience and glad that there is support somewhere from this forum. Indeed, our situation quite similar, but my case is in the beginning stage I suppose (about 5 months since we start having problem), that's why I said I do not know how much longer I...
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    Is my marriage drifting apart?

    These 2 weeks I have been thinking a lot, I admit that our marriage has drifted apart but still I do not know what should I do? To move on without him, I can't do it. Afterall, I know that I still love him and do not want to abandon our 8 yrs relationship. To stay on, I feel miserable and do not...
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    Is my marriage drifting apart?

    Hi Doll Are you referring to the 'affairs" he had with some girls which I have found out? He assured me that it was just feng chang zhuo xi. There was no further things besides those emails & msg. If you were me, would you choose to believe him?
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    Is my marriage drifting apart?

    Hi Nemo That' what I thought too. With added responsibility, maybe he will stay home more often as I am sure he will want to see the bb too. I heard some of my fren told me that men change after they have kids. However, we does not even ML, how to make the baby? We used to watch those kind of...
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    Is my marriage drifting apart?

    Hi i3nim and nemo Thanks for your advice. Indeed, knowing that I have to change myself first, I recently engaged myself with things that I have always wanted to do. Eg, attending workshop, go out with girlfriends, go gym, travel with my families instead of with him (usually I always go...
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    Is my marriage drifting apart?

    It has been quite sometimes since I last posted. I have been feeling unhappy and troubled. Feel that my relationship with my hb is drifting apart but hb insists that we have no problem, just that I am overly suspicious. Hope someone could offer me some advice. We have not had any sex for...
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    Trust n Insecurity

    Powder, thanks. Your comments always hit the nail. I guess I am in a denial state. I still cannot accept the facts that he cheated on me but deep in my heart, I know I will eventually forgive him. I still envision a lifetime with him but I am scared and have no confident. There is already a...
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    No sex, no kid life

    Meng I am curious why did you comment that my hb is a good husband? I am not saying that he is bad bcos I know he does has his good points, however I am hurt that he is flirting with TOW, somemore not 1 but 2 women. Is this what you guys called "feng chang zhuo xi"?
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    Trust n Insecurity

    Hi Powder I often read your posts. So, for my case, do you think is There yet? I have a lot of ??? in my head with regards to my hb behaviours. However, I somehow feels that he still cares for me but I cannot comprehend why he replied in emails to TOW that he loves her. Is this a moment of...
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    No sex, no kid life

    My hb is pretending as if nothing has happened. He is aware that I ve not been happy lately. But he is neither taking any action nor at least show concern to me. He feels that I'm going cranky again bcos of my often mood swing lately. He still brings me out for shopping & dinners. Is he...
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    No sex, no kid life

    Today, I found out something shocking. I accidentally enter his email a/c. I saw girls send him msg such as Lao Gong, I love you. And he replied bao bei, I love you. Worst still, they took photos together and behave very intimately. The girl even send him a photo of herself where she was...
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    No sex, no kid life

    Angel To a cetain extent, I do feel that we both have lost the passion. we no longer have sexual intimacy but my hb feels that it is ok and not a neccesity to have. To him, there are other things more impt such as career and his hobbies. He always comment that I am too free, always think about...
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    No sex, no kid life

    Powder Mind I ask how old are you? At least, you still change your mindset. But for my hb, I dun know whether the day will come whereby he automatically tell me "lets have baby". I think I have to wait very long. Newsbride Your fren very young get married leh. How old is she now? she must...
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    No sex, no kid life

    Who? To be frank, my hb is quite caring to me actually and really I cannot "hiam" this type of husband. Is just only that he is very very career minded now, he wants to do lots of things at one time which takes up majority of his time. And is not that I dun support him which in fact I do, but...
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    No sex, no kid life

    Green I admit that I should not blame my hubby for the boring & routine life. I must go & find my own things to do. But i dun have a lot of frens and I am quite a homely person and sometimes after a hard day work, I just want to go home, rest & watch TV. I am not expecting my hb...

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