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    Devastated and Lost

    And you and/or her still clinging onto this marriage for ____? From what you said, there seem to be little effort, let alone progress.
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    Exposing Adultery

    Personal indiscretion, if this constitutes as one, .. unless has bearing on one's work performance, etc ... will not impact one's career one lah. Been there, done there ... will be given weird / strange stares for the initial few months, ... thereafter, .. it's back to normal. Still getting...
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    Exposing Adultery

    HAH! Reputation of the company? Get real. Name me a relevant example or two.
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    Exposing Adultery

    If HR has to make one to go, ... you reckon will it be the dude (i.e. boss) or Simple Life's wife?
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    Exposing Adultery

    Unless it's in a stat board, where different set of values may prevail, ... little, if anything, will happen in the private sector. That dude's mates might tease him "Wah! You trust and thrust your subordinate siah! Good job!! Cheers!"
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    Exposing Adultery

    Are you expecting your wife's boss to apologize for being utterly attractive and irresistible such that your wife, with you as consideration, decides to stray? Adultery is not a crime. Blackmail is.
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    Devastated and Lost

    It takes two to clap. What's there to apologize for? When two consenting adults decide to commit adultery? If I'm him, ... I'll ask you to keep your wife in check ... it's like your dog, by her own accord, strays outside your residence, .. seeks and find refuge elsewhere, ... you to call the...
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    Can I still salvage my marriage?

    "long as these are not fundamental difference in values, lifestyle, a certain level of compromise needs to exist btwn both parties. and both parties need do it willingly, give and take." - how's your situation that warrants you starting threads here and in EDMW? U will know the true state of...
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    Can I still salvage my marriage?

    There's a significant difference between seeking & reaching a compromise, versus 'force-fitting'. The latter is usually a guarantee for disaster.
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    My husband is an introvert and boring person

    She clearly stated that leh ... twice.
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    How to Annul a Marriage in sg

    Albeit my reply is couple of months late, ... instead of taking to the forum, ... shouldn't you be calling your lawyer instead?
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    Opinions needed

    Hmm ... for all my relationships, ... I've always been invited to, and I do attend, such reunion dinners. :)
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    Should I marry someone who had annulment before?

    And do you know him personally, and well enough to conclude that he did not "kept it from her on purpose". I don't. Ultimately, it is up to her to believe him wholeheartedly, or not. Can't be, and shouldn't be a case of "I believe you 50%". It's all, or nothing.
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    Should I marry someone who had annulment before?

    ... and your reply is more than 4 years late. They probably already have kiddos by now.
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    My husband is an introvert and boring person

    Ultimately, ... children have 'no choice' whether to come into this world or not. We do. They should be our product of love. Not to be utilized as a tool / bargaining chip. Or as a 'hope that he/she won't leave me, .. things will get better' etc.
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    Opinions needed

    My missus-to-be once contemplated this arrangement - of toggling between two dwellings. But we decided to can it - as it is a tad too inconvenient and disruptive, ... even thou she had her own place, and is more than happy to even have my folks over for stays every now and then (got spare guest...
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    Devastated and Lost

    i. TS's intent - can only be inferred from his post. I do not know him personally to make an unqualified statement. Do you know him sufficiently? TS: "Am married for about 11 years with 2 beautiful kids in primary school. Everything is simply perfect really. Loving wife, good job ...... What am...
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    Opinions needed

    Same practice over at my end. Works well.
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    Opinions needed

    Would you prefer him to be flaccid all the time? ;)

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