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I think many here have misunderstand my weeping for him over 5 years statement!!!!! I m just weeping for someone I most love BUT he has left me.....it is just like weeping for someone who had die, and we miss them much My mental state is still prefect and I am still the TOP performances in my...

I can swear to GOD, there is NEVER 1 second though out this 5 years, I ever want him to be unhappy....I strongly believe if u truly LOVE someone....u wish and want him to be happy.....that was what I said to him on my last sentence I sign on the paper because you said you are not happy with...

I said I am happy for him to be able to have his own children and enjoying family time now I am v sad because why that don't happen to us when we are together...why is it so difficult for me to just have a baby of my own, why such cruel treatment have to happen to me!!! I have never do...

Hi power....thanks for still being here to give good direction pointers to others I think many of you here will still remember me.....miko Many give me good listening eyes here 5 years ago, I thank u you all I only can say YES, TIME will heal a broken heart but we can never be happy...

It was a 15 years relationship (include 7 years of marriage ) he choose to leave me saying he is NOT happy in our marriage anymore. We did not have children after 5 years of difficult , painful and bitter try....doctor checked and both of us hv NO fertility problem, we did manymanymany...

I guess all couples will hope to END UP just like what we have said during the marriage vows " till death do us part " Too bad mine has become " if you love him, you let him go...for him to be happy " I will remind myself constantly on this phase ...so that I can move out of my past...

I do hope I can put my past down and move forward ...Everyday is a fight...Sometime I feel I have put down already...then sometime it get tigger back...it is a daily "emotional rollar coaster"...It is not like all or you said...just move on, it is human feelings... I admit...thoughout my...

My self denial got a lot to do with my LOVE for him and i always thought he LOVE me the same too... Its diffcult for me to accept, he has changed!!! still harbouring thoughts he will return to me 1 day... Back in Jan 2007 when he 1st initial the seperation - he told me he was unhappy...

hi everyone...still remember me? esp. powder i m back to share a TRUTH, lots of realisation and perhaps needed some hearing & feedback ... Maybe i should use the word "FINALLY"...after 3 years seperation with my hubby. I happen to know he has already remarried with 2 beautiful girls...

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The saddness and most heartpain is WHEN our be love ones leave... AND we have "no control" over the situation BUT just to LET GO...... i know it's NEVER "easy" ...there is also no choice but to LOOK FORWARD That's what our pair of eye are for!!! "To look forward / in front" DON"T...

hi heartpain, Yes i will be here. SURVIVORS also need "shoulders" to lie and for cry onto! Take WHATEVER your hubby is able to give U as ur compensation financially. With the right money on hand, u'll be able to move on better at WHICHever place u have choosen finally to be in.

heartpain, Trust yourself, if u r " no good " why should your Co. offer you this opportunity. Not everyone is given such a chance! I don't know whether you believe - WHEN heaven is tarking something away from us, He will give us something in return...see it V positively!!! You can...

haiz... In such case...I really can't say much I would just share my plight with you and you decide for yourself WHAT you want to do or simply don't do anything next Ur case and mine have some similiaties We also have no 3rd party BUT he keep telling me he is unhappy in the marriage...

I was with my cilent Yesterday...she share her story with me. Having a happy family, I ask her WHY did she stop at 1 kid? she told me she nearly die while giving birth to her gal then...hubby was in the labour ward and wittness everythings with her Together After they spend 18 years...

I always go to Kinokuniya, they hv a lot of self help books there...depending on your concern. There's an author who wrote many books on " How to be happpy "...And his books occured a few section in Kino. I just brought - The secret of Letting go by Guy Finley - BUT i hv not start...

BTW I find READING help as well... GET the right book, and as you read You will find it's like SOMEONE with the right knowledge is talking to you, giving you the right direction, and you have to listen and get the right MESSAGE. IT'S SELF HELF

heartpain, for my take - i would advice you to cry it out...it's an emotional express. I still cry, even after 2 1/2 years seperated with my hubby, AND i know i will still love him BUT it is in my heart only!!! I choose to let go because I love him, I want him to be happy It's the...

When people decided to move on ahead. Their heart ALREDAY left long ago. To pursue what they wanted... No matter how much you cry of feel heartache... he will " no longer " pity or feel for you. Look for the door to EXIT... Since he want to leave, I let go He feel happier to...

Just to share, if you are 1st time driver - don't get NEW cars... sure heartache!!! due to minor accident here & there ( quite sure to have ) I got my KIA RIO ( a year old car ) for $30K I paid it off w/o taking loan My mthly maintenance for petrol, parking, ERP, road tax...