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    To let go: Summer Garden Lunch (Looking for someone to just take the package)

    16th Jan 2016 Lunch Qian Xi Mt Faber 15 tables $2000 deposit paid All I want is someone to just take the package, not asking for anything, PM me and we'll make the necessary arrangements.
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    make up artist recomendations

    Can anyone recommend a reasonably priced make up artist who is good at doing very natural looking make up? My budget is about 700 for lunch and dinner make up, preferably no or minimal hair styling.
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    Boyfriend didn't propose...

    First, think of what you want. Then, go talk to the man and find out what he wants. See if you can align both and work from there. Honestly, having been a globetrotter, I think you never waste time moving countries, sure, the reasoning may be a bit off in hindsight but you have gained so much...
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    How to Address ILs

    I personally ddon't find it small but then I have very different tolerances for things than most people. Maybe in a bunch of years, when I'm used to the ILs, they'll evolve into mum and dad. But now, I don't see any point in pushing things esp since I already don't feel good towards them for...
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    How to Address ILs

    Again, I can't ask ILs because they'll most likely think I'm trying to be funny. We've already had many incidents and clashes which I guess are mostly cultural misunderstandings, I'm not really interested in risking problems any more. My cousins tell me they call their ILs 'Jia po' and 'jia...
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    How to Address ILs

    No, I do not live with them. When my SO and I decided to get married, the initial plan was to move in together but we figured that if we were ready to live with each other, we might as well get married and buy a place of our own. I don't mind if we lived in the US or a big country and saw the...
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    How to Address ILs

    I'm not very close to my own parents and I don't think I want to try being that close to my ILs. After the fiasco of my attempt to be a 'good traditional chinese girl' hoping to gain their approval, I decided that it may be best for us to have a civil and polite relationship without becoming as...
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    How to Address ILs

    There is literally no one else to ask about this, my friends, as I've mentioned are either no help at all or I'm not comfortable with following suit and calling the ILs my mom and dad. It's perhaps not the best solution but after a lot of unhappiness and friction between all parties when I...
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    How to Address ILs

    I have a mom and dad. To me, it feels like I'm replacing my own parents by doing that. I suppose part of it is not having been here long enough for it to feel like I fit in culturally and we also don't have a close enough relationship where I feel comfortable doing that.
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    How to Address ILs

    Hi all, I need advice on this. I don't know what to address my ILs by. My friends overseas address their ILs by first name if they're close or with 'Mr/Mrs such and such' if they're not. My SG friends call their ILs 'mum' and 'dad' no matter how close or not they are. My Chinese or Taiwanese...

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