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How does one know when it's time to accept reality, let go and move on? :(

I know I will not be happy in this relationship if this continues. But I don't feel happier after trying to leave. I know the right thing to do is to leave yet there's something holding me back. I'm not sure what is it too. Sigh this is confusing :(

Lonely, Till now actually I don't know what I really want yet. So should really give myself a cool off period. He said he will try to seek help, so just waiting to see if he will really do so or not. Actually, Buddhabar, you raised a very important concern to me. I am indeed afraid my kid will...

I am supposed to go for the signing of lease of the HDB flat early this coming week. Don't know what to do.. the loan amount is not enough but he still keep insisting we can afford when he has not much savings himself.

I had thought of leaving him, hence told him I wanted to get a divorce. But after he moved out, I feel so miserable that I feel like going back to him. Sometimes, I really wish I have the strength to leave him, to move on and not look back. I'm tired of constantly doubting everything he says...

Why am I accepting his reasons.. I am not sure. This sounds stupid, honestly sometimes I know he's lying but I still make myself give him the benefit of doubt. Somehow he is able to make his reasons for lying sooo justifiable, and he always can make me feel bad somehow.. Sigh.

I have mentioned to him few times over the years that he should probably see a counsellor because sometimes I do think there might be a habitual lying issue with him. But he either brush it off or says he has no money for it. Recently he did say he will try to get social worker to refer him to...

Hi Rainbow, how does he lie? Is it like by omission of fact or? Mine will spin off stories. Sometimes I also don't understand why. Why lie when eventually the truth will be out. Did you manage to speak to him? Hi Milo, I tried talking to him each time I discovered a lie. He never once...

Hi all, I'm 24 this year married for 5 years and have a 5 year old child. As can tell, it's a shotgun marriage and we were only together for barely 6 months when i know I'm pregnant. My hb is 13 years my senior, overall treats me very well, in the sense that he will give in to me most of the...