I already employ a maid and together with my mom to help take care of baby when at work. However my mom already have on hand 2 kids, 3 and 4 years old to take care (my bro kids)
These 2 kids is attending half day child care from 2013 onwards.
His mom also stay at home mom who seldom go out...
He using I am a career woman that tactic to fight for share care and control.
He indicate that I work OTtill midnight, or regular hour to 8 pm everyday. Where else he knock off at 6 pm everyday. Of course he drive, I took mrt. That why I need 1 hr he only need few min.
He say I am...
He is so irritating.
My gal has a finger nail scratch on her leg,
He keep on asking me how did this happen, who cause this.
Trying to imply I abuse my gal.
I also like that. 1 new born, husband commit affair while I pregnant.
He say he does not love me anymore, but he know he is not possible with the mistress.
So I cannot wait for him forever. I move on with my BB.
I read a lot of affair thingy after I start my separation.
Ppl in affair is...
Npyl, Very phobia.
A lot of ppl getting divorce.
I still healing, sometimes sad, angry, relieve...
A lot of feelings, but have to be strong for my gal.
Nowadays, it hard to find a good guy.
Even if there is, no guy will wan a divorcee with kid.
Have to face the reality, we are not western country.
It hard but not impossible.
Guy heart hard to catch.
Must really open eyes big big. If not, then don choose.
Since I already have a gal. Why must die die choose a mate?
Let nature take it course.
I mentally ok. He working, I working also. I don see why care and control can be given to him instead.
I am local. Already employ a maid to help my mom take care of my gal while at work.
Have u heard of once bitten twice shy. I will look at guys different perspective Liao.
Must learn to...
She not married Leh. If i am her, I will Find all the answer before marry.
I thought custody is normally joint. Care and control is given to mom for new born babies,
That bastard want my daughter also, he also want to sell the house and share profit 50/50.
Which I don agree, I intend to transfer him cpf+ int.
Hate him to the core
Already separated. I sleeping with gal, my daughter. Haha
All I wanted is to leave this marriage, have the house, earn more money, capable buy a weekend car, bring daughter out.
Got house, got money, got daughter= beautiful life
Don't you think so?
On what ground that I will not have to wait for 3 years?
It the woman instinct that I have to know he is still with her. And by looking at his msg style, his whatsapp status. She everyday will MSG him good morning when she go to work.
That how caring she is.
To him, she is caring...
Don wait. Divorce or not divorce. Make a choice.
I wait and wait. See. He still go out with her.
Guys will be guys.
Make a move. Guys won't make the move one.
Normally is the woman initiate divorce, not guys
Can I base on special leave to divorce him rather than wait till 3 years?
Anyone have knowledge on this?
Why could man change so fast? Am I still living in the past?
Haiz
Anyway, I decide to divorce him.
He is waiting for feb 2014 to divorce him.
I prefer to settle this straight now.
I typo, I don have PI report. Only can base on unreasonable behavior.