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    My bf is a vegetarian, but I am not. Now... we have a problem.

    as i've said, only me can understand me. and no, i can't be bothered to explain in detail. and no. I go this far in my reasonings because, i can't be bothered to go beyond this. and to me, a smoker makes a lousy HB. ha ha.
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    My bf is a vegetarian, but I am not. Now... we have a problem.

    i don't wanna continue dispute over this. nobody will understand anyway. Unless they are me. ho ho
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    My bf is a vegetarian, but I am not. Now... we have a problem.

    oh well. i think it's just a matter of which aspect you see from. nobody can unserstand what i think anyway. LOL. if they do, then they must be genius. Hei Bee Hiam and skylar, I said already. This only apply to SERIOUS followers. And I only said before, they are ONE of the...
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    My bf is a vegetarian, but I am not. Now... we have a problem.

    milo, wat i mean is, a sincere and devoted follower, who really learns and abide by the rules, makes a good partner, simply for the fact that, he will not take up bad habits like smoking, gambling, etc. And will not resort to violence, will make sure he provides for the family. if u know...
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    My bf is a vegetarian, but I am not. Now... we have a problem.

    Anticipate, ""in the fo tang's teaching, all it takes is one differece in thought, to be a demon or buddha" this is a direct translation from chinese. Did you continue to read the following meaning? I said evil tots. Don't imply to Marshmallow that because she's of a diff side, so her...
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    My bf is a vegetarian, but I am not. Now... we have a problem.

    I'm just saying, a down to earth follower is one of the good guys that will make a HB. I nv say only the followers will make a good HB. And yes. I agree no need to be extremist. That's why i said do everything naturally. And no forcing should be done. marshmallow, i didn't read this...
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    My bf is a vegetarian, but I am not. Now... we have a problem.

    btw, is it 'tien dao' fo tang that he goes to? Gosh.. there're so many new ones popping out that sometimes i get confused
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    My bf is a vegetarian, but I am not. Now... we have a problem.

    what Ethel say is very logical and right. I also wanna add this, in the fo tang's teaching, all it takes is one differece in thought, to be a demon or buddha. Meaning, if a person harbours evil tots, then he/she will end up in 'ah xiu luo' line. If a person harbours only good thinking...
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    My bf is a vegetarian, but I am not. Now... we have a problem.

    Marshmallow, In fo tang, vegetarianism is accepted individually through time. Some take it up very quickly. Others may take slightly longer years. What more a non-fo tang people - your parents. Tell him to be understanding on this part. I completely understand his position and yours...
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    My bf is a vegetarian, but I am not. Now... we have a problem.

    Marshmallow, I can't help but would like to ask. What religion does your bf takes? I'm a vegetarian. But, there's actually stages to being kinda a attained one... first stage is inability to adapt. (some people skip this). Then become heavily involved. Like being over sad for killing...
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    Suffer from depression

    i've been thru this stage before as well. find someone to talk to. a few trustable people would be good. then they will take turn to hear and won't feel very stressed listening as well. there're other alternatives, i've discovered. alternative remedies, they call it. Go to the...
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    How to be happy?

    you'll be surprised to know the impact upbringing can have on the siblings growing up in same family.
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    How to be happy?

    actually, i was thinking from another point (maybe). that the upbringing in your life plays apart. for eg, if parent says go out have fun, and children happily jump for joy (natural kids' reaction). then parent feels annoyed and say "No outing. Coz you cannot behave well. Jumping up and...
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    Fallen in love with another gal......

    Mr Lee, you really ought to go to see a counsellor. Honestly, human are naturaly attracted to carefree and very cheerful people coz they give us the energy to keep going in life. So long as you cut the source, and find your happiness elsewhere, such as watching your children grow, watching...
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    Car

    nope. i mean, my workplace is only at most about 10 minutes drive away. but weekends use to ferry my dog to places for pinics/fun etc. maybe will consider car rental then see how i will be able to make arrangement. Thank all but it's really handy and useful to learn all these new...
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    I gave up on our 3 mths of marriage

    "'What doesnt kill me, makes me stronger'" True. Maybe, your MIL is sent by deity to strengthen your character. I mean, if looking at the whole thing in a positive light.
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    I gave up on our 3 mths of marriage

    tomasulu, i think, you got me wrong. like i said before, all the little detais, only people involved will know. tat's why, outsiders can only listen, give advise. The final decision still lies in the hands of people involved. And no. It's not because i'm fierce. But my character is...
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    I gave up on our 3 mths of marriage

    quite sure. those chinese saying, sometimes do have their logic and history mah. "got such father, got such son" "tiger father won't have a doggy son" like father like son. but really, the father's upbringing plays a VERY big role in the child's life. Could study how the...
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    I gave up on our 3 mths of marriage

    nolem, have you ever tot about 'feng shui' before? not being superstitious. But, feng shui does have some scientific theory in it. it will help alter lots of things. Like - how to block undesirable people from living in your house. how to have money rolling into your house etc...
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    I gave up on our 3 mths of marriage

    huh? wat bomb? no. I'm a hokkien. My dad is, so naturally i should be right? my mum's hakka (Ke jia). By right, hakka women are most bearable to all nonsense in life. But then, too bad. I guess it's true that people said children look up and take their FATHER as the role model...

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