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Sorry TS, but we all sleep in the bed that we make. Love is not blind and the signs were there that you chose to ignore. No one changes overnight. But I agree that you need to get out of this abusive relationship asap.

Good for you bro' ;)

Your teenage boys want you to be happy? Yes? Those differences with your hubby are irreconcilable? Yes? You no longer have feelings for your hubby? Yes?

What is the price of unforgiveness?

This is a relationship thread and not a health thread .... maybe check in the Health sub-forum?

Jiayous okies! Muacks

Ermmm... stop moping about what might have been and focus on what lies ahead? One never gets to one's destination driving through the rearview mirror ... Take up a new hobby, take a course, meet new people, etc

Yes, if those acts are the love language of your spouse including gestures such as giving her your undivided attention during mealtimes or not playing HP games when she's trying to have a serious conversation

As I used to say - "indifference" is the death knell of a relationship. Let's hope it has not reached this stage. If he cannot be compelled to talk about the underlying issues with you then you cannot solve the problem at the root. His "forgetting" your birthday is just a manifestation. It...

I think you've missed the point I was trying to make - it is not the amount but the "act" that makes her feel cherished. It may not be an allowance but an act that validates your spouse or speaks to her "love language"

I beg to differ. I think it is plain rude to play HP games if your galfren or spouse is talking to you. The full context of my answer - playing HP games doesn't fall into any of the 5 levels of communication with the galfren/boyfren/spouse - take your pick Which brings me back full circle to...

Below is the wedding vow at ROM https://singaporebrides.com/forumboard/messages/539/Marriage_vows-403480.doc Did your hubby swear to this modified version? "...... To Bridegroom Will you, __________________ take this woman ______________ to be your wedded wife, to live together in the legal...

Out of curiosity, what does he spend his money on?

And playing HP games doesn't fall into any of those levels :rolleyes:

A good friend can look after your physical needs, you don't have to marry them. Jokes aside, I am pretty sure that through the years you've only engaged in level 5, 4 or even 3 communication together. You need to go deeper into level 2 and 1. Go google "4 levels of communication for...

You can continue to tip-toe and skirt the issues, but for how long? You want to live the rest of your life threading on eggshells? Why would a man who is supposed to love you brush off your concerns instead of trying to make things right? You've alluded to "underlying" issues without...

You've let him slide for too long. For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also. Tell it as it is, that you don't feel special anymore

Since you have access to his money, why not use it to bao bigger ang baos for other relatives?

I would advocate acceptance rather than compromise. Compromising is like a stretched rubber-band waiting to bite you in the a$$ sometime in the future

Huh !!!? Don't do "that" ! o_Oo_O