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As someone mentioned upthread, the transfer in ownership to solely your name is subject to HDB rules after the divorce nisi absolute is granted. This is to prevent couples from gaming the system. He is paying in cash or using CPF?

I think there is no hurry to find a buyer if you intend to buy over his share after the decree nisi absolute. Maybe you can check the valuation of the unit if you can although you'd be hard pressed to find the data since sales of similar unit in your area as I'd assume all the flats would still...

I think his idea is to write to the big boss man himself :cool: MND organisation

You managed to buy over your ex-wife's share? If sold on open market - was it sold during MOP or after? I think TS is trying to buy over her spouse's share of the flat and HDB is non-committal in their reply. Your writing to Minister of MND is solid :cool:

Eligibility criteria aside - assuming you can form a family unit with your mom (one of HDB's criteria amongst many including MOP, income etc) what is the mutually agreed selling price between your ex and yourself? I think that is a deal-breaker for most And that's not including housing grants...

I think a couple needs to be honest with each other, especially when marriage is on the cards. She is probably fearful that you cannot take the brutal truth or to lose you. But if you can love her at her worst then you'd know this marriage has a high probability to last. This you need to...

Hope this helps Annulment

Sorry, but it isn't clear to me - you didn't know of her bipolar disorder before you got married? How long were you guys in a relationship before marriage?

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you bro

What you are describing is singlehood. It doesn't take marriage to experience that liberation bro'

Nope that's not what I said in my reply. If there is nothing left in the relationship, why not get a divorce straightaway instead of trying to hurt the other party by having an affair yourself? Two wrongs don't make a right. This is what you said: "The only reason why an affair is...

I see. So what you are advocating is to have an affair to cure your heartbreak when your other half strays? Why not seek an annulment or get a deed of separation first before screwing around outside of the marriage sacrament?

An eye for an eye makes both blind .... There is no justification for having affairs outside of a marriage covenant even if the other party started one first ....

Or as vanillaicecream aka VIC used to say - "don't make a man your priority if you are not his priority" ...

"For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also" Is the treasure and heart sleeping in the same bed and dreaming the same dreams?

There is more than meets the eye and deep down you know it. Don't let him fool you again is all I can say. I'm sorry that you have met such a despicable man. A guy should be proud of his girlfriend and not keep his relationship "underground" like he did. There may be reasons for doing that but...

Btw, you seemed to have kept your relationship under wrap but you have met his parents, no? I find it "fishy" that they cancelled at the last moment....

Your marriage is not registered in either Vietnam or Singapore? Suggest that you seek legal advice. Not sure if common-law marriage accords you any rights as a "spouse"

Wow.... this priest can solve all relationship problems. The world is a happy place at last !

Roman's 12:19 But what is the price of unforgiveness sister?