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    Anyone have success stories after an infidelity?

    Sounds exactly like mine. Just that I found out 12 days before the marriage and called it off. Makes me feel like walking away now.
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    WTS Dallas Suntec (50 - 120 pax)

    Negotiated a 10% off food deal + paid deposit. Dates from now to Jan 2020 (I can ask for extension). Cost per pax is less than 100 for ala carte dinner, or even lesser for buffet. Decorations included. Please PM me if keen.
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    Dealing with trust issues

    Ya agree too. My husband works in an office full of pretty and young girls. Lol. He lunches with them everyday too. I can't be bothered to pick a fight over such small things. I am just more confident in myself. He chose me for a reason (and I dont think many women are of my calibre anyway...
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    I’m feeling lost and bothered by some BTO issues

    I don't agree with this. It is TS's choice how she wishes to lead her life and not be dictated by anyone else. I do not think she should sacrifice her life just because his parents want to do something their way without considering her inputs, esp when they have their own flat to stay in. Little...
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    I’m feeling lost and bothered by some BTO issues

    Unfortunately we HAD to choose a place damn near their house (and super far from my own house) . And I think we chose wrongly. Cause they are old and sick and unable to take care of our future kids. So in the end it's still my parents who will be taking care of the kids. Not to mention they live...
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    I’m feeling lost and bothered by some BTO issues

    Ya I know he's torn in between. But they are not his biological parents and they adopted him when they were nearing 50 (and very low income family) so they probably thought of him as a security to their old age. They were selfish to start with. I dont see why I need to be generous.
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    I’m feeling lost and bothered by some BTO issues

    Hello! You are in a very similar position as me. My SO is the only son (and only child) too, and his parents had an expectation of moving in with us. We wanted to get a resale in the first place, and needed their help as we were younger (that was 4 years ago) and did not have enough savings...
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    WTS: Post-wedding items for sale 2017

    I like the white cheongsam! Can i have pics of the front of the red gown please?
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    Two-timed

    That is true! :D Must have a lot of girls queuing up to date him. I won't stand any chance (not that I am wanting any) haha!!
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    Two-timed

    Hahaha well thankfully I don't dig handsome guys. So infernolord is safe. Thanks everyone!
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    Two-timed

    Thanks for all your advices. I think we are good. :)
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    Divorce or Separation Questions - need advice

    In the unlikely event that this is real, wonder how your bf will think if he chances upon this. Karma bites. I hope your bf does not look for a younger and prettier gf when you grow old.
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    Two-timed

    Thanks everyone! The guys who were interested during the break were all earning (way) more than my ex/current. So I don't look at how much a guy earns to determine if I'm attracted to him. I got back together with him cause I wasn't attracted to anyone else. They can be super handsome and rich...
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    Two-timed

    Broke up because he did not know how to handle finances, and lost a huge amount (annual salary) on the stock market. I loved him but I am not able to support his gambling habit and his ageing parents. I just felt like there's a stone weighing on my back and it's just going to be heavier if the...
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    Please advise!

    He does not want you there in UK with him. I think it's an excuse for him to say that it is better for your career if you stay in SG. 5 years is a long time. I feel that if he were serious, he would have tied the knot before heading over to UK. He will be a single mid-twenties male in UK. Maybe...
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    Wedding $$$$ giving and returning

    Maybe only applicable to those ladies who wish to live a more extravagant lifestyle? Thus relying on their husbands? I don't feel such a need cause I am able to fund what I want (with some to spare) and won't need to be so calculative. The joint account idea seems good. Probably gonna do it!
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    Two-timed

    Hi all. I just found out that I was being two-timed. He was concurrently seeing someone from his work place. I am so angry at myself for being so stupid. He said he broke things off with her. I don't know if I can or should trust him now. I am so tired. I'm 29. Was with him for 3 years and...
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    Wedding $$$$ giving and returning

    No sweeping statements on prenups please! :) It might be possible they MAY still carry some weight, depending on individual circumstances. Do consult a lawyer!
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    Divorce or Separation Questions - need advice

    trolllllllalallalalalala :)
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    Wedding $$$$ giving and returning

    Ok chill both. Let's not measure things financially. @Staypositive: he is improving himself! earning above average and he has a very promising career. I'm earning more cause I am just lucky in what I do. I think this is sufficient for me. I don't spend a good chunk of my salary. So why not use...

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