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He sounds quite crappy to me...so what's going to happen when you are preggy or with a post natal figure? I will think twice of spending my life w such a guy. I he grown 2 sizes up after marriage and giving birth to 2 boys. Not tt my hubby doesn't mind, but it doesn't give him a reason to do...

Kids are wonderful! Yes! I lost my freedom when I had my #1 12 mths plus ago. Yes! I almost into depression and kept asking why do I wan to be a mummy 10 mths ago? Yes! I was completely exhausted taking care of him 8 mths ago.... Yes! He may be our burden/liability (watever you like...

Dilemna, if you cannot even manage this, you really have a long way to go in this marriage...there will be a lot more (and far more important) decisions to make beside jus choosing a ROM date...*roll eyes*....this is jus such a small matter...i can't imagine wat's next for you

BTB, that's v common for a lot of companies. I was from MNCs and their policies are as such. And y do u need to be so upset and mad over this? Is marriage leave more impt than job satisfaction, pay and exposure? I hope u didn't join any company jus to get marriage leave....

Ha...I think my hb might have only passed 2-3 of the items.. 1 thing I'm v sure is he passed the following: 33) wants to have kids with me But I still love my hb, and I'm sure he loves me though he is not expressive.....and not coz he shower me with kisses or gifts....

Jus be v clear of what you wan in your career when u r going for the interview. I ever interviewed candidates on the multiple positions they applied in my ex company. And 1 question I will always ask is why did you apply for so many positions in this company, any role will do as long as you get...

As a mum to a 9mths infant and another on the way, I have v limited real life parenting experiences too. But as far as I know ever since I become 1, I do not think I will practise my ideal parenting style.....instead, my hb and I are going to deal with the kids along the way, depending on their...

Opal, are you a mum/dad yet? Interesting discussion going on here, and wonder if any is a parent yet? What u seen as ideal may not work out or what you really execute in the end......be flexible...

Hmm..how abt confessing to her hubby on ur affairs?

Lya, u have a choice which u didn't exercise, so in this case u cannot blame it on anyone else except urself and hubby....when we were planning, I made it v clear to my hubby our families can gv their inputs but we will make the final call together as hubby and wife to ensure that everything is...

Lya, u r saying ur family is selfish coz they are not helping in financing your hotel celebration when u wan to make it up to them?????? Hmmm...u r putting the blame on other people than seeing urself in the poor planning and setting up the right expectations in the 1st place.....I kinda pity ur...

finger, I'm like u too, will keep quiet the moment that I get angry with my hubby, since our courtship days....he too didn't understand y and we have quarreled over this several times. like ur bf, he would always ignore me then we ended up in big fights. It takes a lot of communication for...

Denise, my hubby has also been very generous w his money for his family and frens. We used to fight over this during our courtship days. However, I decided to take 1 step back to review the situation when we decided to get married, coz I didn't want my marriage to fail due to the constant fights...

En Xuan, you are saying coz you are not married yet. *touch wood*....I hope that you won't need to go thru the moments when you find out your hubby is cheating on you...your mentality and thinking or actions may change then

Hmm...I'm now pregnant and I wonder will I stop my hubby from DIY or watching porn too when I'm too big and cannot fulfill him anymore? To be honest, I will rather he do any of the above than to go out and find another woman. Oh, by the way, I dun think any religion supports pre-martial...

Thots, if u can, ignore ur dad's plead....i told u about my bro? my sis also ignored my mum's plead after she gave up on my bro..My mum know it's useless to ask my sis after a lot of attempts that she stop doing it.....

fallen, u really sound helpless...err...speak to the other 2 banks on monthly instalments? Or u rather wait for them to send u the lawyer letter then panic like now?

hmm..wat's wrong with relationship nowadays? sigh..can't we learn to trust each other a bit more? If u wan this r/s, don't go to that FS thingy. Wat is that FS master said u are perfect match for each other, are u going to ROM with him immediately despite ur insecurity?

hmm..does it matter coz it's already 12th July 2009?

dun declare bankrupty over 30k.....like wat almost have advised, speak to the banks...if u really need to clr the min of $870 only, speak to relatives or frens....why worried about embarrasement? Ur face more impt or the rest of ur life is more impt?