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Lynette, it's too general a question. If you ask those who are very successful, they will tell you "Of course! Look at me now. I'm driving a Mercedes 300 series, live on landed property, and earn more than $20k a month". But if you ask the (irritating) sweaty guys in the streets and...

"Save My Marriage": To say honestly yet brutally, you and your wife are not meant for each other. The way I read your little life stories you related, I think it's way too dramatic for anyone to classify that you 2 have a happy marriage. It's sad. Cos seriously, the only way out is to...

catch22, dun be silly. I will just comment based on the info you've provided. Your bf is a weak jerk that has a hungry dick who will likely dump you again. Men have a way to rationalize and play with women's feelings. He is such a coward who crawled back to you when he got...

stardust, He's your husband. You chose to marry him for whoever he is. I'm not sure if you had known his character before you married him but anyway, it's too late for regrets now. You said you don't mind with his flirting of gals in restaurants, or that he seems popular with women. Why...

TS souunds like a simplistic young woman with happy go lucky attitude. Let her be lah. Everyone's opinion on marriage (and divorce) is different. I think it's more ridiculous that outsiders in this forum are worrying more than she does. And even more ridiculous that along the wsy...

ForgivingWife, Your anonymous name is really apt. I can sense from the little you write that you are the forgiving sort. I'm sorry to hear of your plight.Not sure if you will still read this post but here are my views: 1. Your husband loves the girl more than you. 2. Your husband is...

There is no such thing as being busy to the point that there is no time to check emails involving something as important as a divorce, or that she leaves the lawyers waiting like that. And no such thing as lawyers too busy they need 6 months to prepare it. Since you are still on talking terms...

Some gals and women can be gullible sometimes. I don't want to presume anything here, but just cos he has changed his attitude does not mean you are safe. In case you don't know, guys have a whole bunch of tricks to use to manipulate their women. Just because your bf seems ok now does not...

Chey... From your other post, I thot you have a bigger problem on an abusive husband?

doesn't look like a previous man to me. But if really true, solid. Better than the common woman we see in the streets here!

The problem with getting married early while you are not prepared for it is that you tend to get swayed easily when the relationship is in trouble. Having a baby will not necessarily bond you and your hubby closer. It could instead create an extra burden on you. I strongly suggest you try...

Bubble tea, I don't think this forum is useful in giving you good advice because you are without a face and no one knows you personally. Just from those few paragraphs, you can't expect to get much advice. I guess what you want is a listening ear. But I suggest you go seek a marriage...

Germaine, Wow, how come your ex-hubby so "hiong" one? 3rd gf? And sleep on your "wedding bed"? He's such a playboy. Did his behaviour become like that recently only, or even b4 your marriage, you could see signs of these coming? There's a lot you need to recover from. The emotional scars...

I hate to but can't help being harsh here. What's up with your friend, man? She's very weak. And what's up with a guy like him? Not cherishing a lady who is "attractive, rich, and eloquent"? If I may take a chance at being subjective here, I think the guy is good looking and maybe...

cow cow, That's very sweet what you are doing now. But do be aware that there are only so many times you can repeat what you are doing. If you over-do it, you run the risk of living in the past rather than accepting the reality of the present. In other words, your definition of...

confused09, Give you an analogy to think about. Maybe it can sort out your thoughts easier. You sound like you desperately need to buy a bag at a store. You see a few choices, and find one whose design you seem to like. You pick it up but only to realize there are holes and tears inside...

Joanne, I can only give you personal advice... as a person "been there, done that". As some say, there is no guarantee. Maybe after marriage, you will find B better or long for him. Or maybe your heart is right, A is indeed the one for you. Or wait... Maybe... neither A nor B is better...

heartbroken gal, It's great to know of the wonderful things you've done for him. But it's obvious. He does not love you or cherish you. As a gal, you will get emotional. You will think of all the nice points about him despite what he has done. And many women like you in the end suffer from...

Miss mute, There is nothing wrong with him. And nothing wrong with you also. It's simply a mismatch of characters. It's good that you are concerned over the differences that you both have before the ROM. Some couples try to ignore this and only concentrate on the marriage part, or on...

Wow, that's drastic, mara. I guess your parents do love you or are concerned about you. And this is the way they react to what you have done. Anyway, locking you up is a dangerous thing to do. Should you need to escape in the event of a mishap, such as fire, there might be a problem. Good...