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My husband is the only child. so does i. no wonder similar behaviour. This sounds quite bad, the 2 families are already showing black face before you two even got near to marriage, cannot imagine when you have to hold your big event. It is understandable that you are in the middle, one is...

Just stumbled across this thread which caught my attention. From the long listings of postings. Not whehter this thread is still active though. I'm amazed some endured 15 years, whereas i'm only endured for 4 years, 8 if including ROM years, i'm quite nothing compared to them...

i feel that his major intersts will be on the children and his ailing father-in-law, and any of the adults' will be secondary. Few good points that if my parents come over (as brought up by him), is, 1. my father do not need to be alone all the time, it is miserable enough to be sick...

thanks for showing empathy. I'm lost of what to do, i thought of many options, but i kept hitting the dead end, either from my hubby, or either that whoever else. That's why i started this thread, hoping to see more options that i can explore. my husband strongly feels that to help me care...

thanks doll, must be my typo. i heard of the hormone pills, but not very sure whether does singapore doctors prescribe it or not.

Why mil's living at my place instead of her place? she was living with herself after my fil passing, her depression sets into her, she can call my hubby in the middle of the night, saying 'if she dies, remember to return A how much money, and return B how much money.' My hubby, do not want her...

i do hope for his support. talked to him yesterday, told him i probably bring the children to my parents' place on sunday, and he said, "then you drive me to shop, i tend shop, you drive the children over, then at night, you can collect the goods (since you are nearer), then, drive all of them...

Ordinary World oh.. please... that's disgusting! I hope you are just joking. Diane Just read up some sites about delaying menses...naturally. there are a few ways... but, not all you have to try. (and i can't guarantee all will work because i don't try all of them myself) 1. Overstress...

it's ok, not exactly rude, all of us are trying finding what's wrong and getting the most optimal solution. both of us feel the same too, really sounds like schiz. but, can't be force her to get diagnosis and treatment, she will make a big hoo-ha over it, and turn all my hubby's maternal...

thanks for the advises. first, it is my house they are living in. my mil have her own house next block and my mother only visits on weekdays day time, she does not live there, instead she lives 1 hour away from me. There's one thing and event i don't like to mention. mainly we don't trust...

Hi people. I need some good advise and suggestion what i should do. This is part of my story: I have 3 children (and a puppy from the streets) at home, technically being taken care of my their grandmothers. My mother took care of them during weekdays daytime, she usually stays as long as 9...

hi. Got my menses right in the middle of my AD :p but didn't affect me much, and no one suspected anything except for my hubby at the end of the day. what i did was, i wore sanity pad before everything starts, even though there's no menses. is a good measure and useful even you didn't have...

My little girl (now 4 years old) snores too. what we did was to get those "Breathe Right" nasal strips and stick over her nose (after she sleeps). It works... maybe you can try it on your hubbies.

hi puppy, how about fixing an chuang date on a weekend or a non-teaching (i mean non-working) day?

hi Bear The truth is, the excel file was posted by a fellow bride. Anyway, to answer your question: it means, if the couple is the ones who 'an chuan' instead of getting some 'sen seh' to do (i mean anyone else to 'an chuan'), don't need to give ang bao to the person(s). Well, as...

Bear. Found my previous post, here's the link, i hope you find the xls file useful. http://www.singaporebrides.com/cgi-bin/forumboard/show.cgi?tpc=3&post=1167158#POST1167158 and my 'lo so' details as a cantonese bride & groom...

hi beet When i bought the red packets, they are already labelled "da" or "xiao", alternaltively, you may write those wordings yourself. Inside the packet are coins, probably 2 ten cents by sense of touch, so far after so long, i have not opened them and take a look inside...

Hi beet I happened to see an article on "an chuang" & "guo da li" in this week's 'You Weekly', which mentioned about the "Yan Ji". If i didn't remember wrongly from what i read, is to put some small red packets labelled "da" or "xiao" at 4 corners of the bed. Which is something i...

bliss i feel that as long both of u happy, then it doesn't matter about this; What for make yourself unhappy staying with them when you know after so long still cannot make it.

mushloom yap, heard about boy jumping on the bed from mil when we did our an-chuan. she even suggest the boy to pee on the bed!!! but, anyway, what happened in the end is that the boy invited 'fly kite', didn't turn up (phew, fortunately!), and so, we don't have to sleep on the urine soaked...