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hi Diana, sorry, long time didn't check the forum... i'm ok, esp since moving out... my hubby has since moved out with me. me & hb staying at a rented flat, leaving my mil staying at our flat. it's not exactly home-sweet-home, but it's comfortable and i feel happier here than staying at...

corrine, my heart goes out to you. i know it's not easy... take care of yourself & be strong...

thanks, yup, i'm a bit sceptical myself on whether my hb can hold onto his decision. so far he seems pretty determined, but dunno if it'll fizzle out in the end. i refrain from expecting too much, but will see how it goes...

i've discussed at length with my parents, and they also spoke with my husband. in the end it was decided to give him one last chance. if he proves that he can be depended on, then well & good. if not, then we go our separate ways, once & for all. of course, i absolutely refuse to move...

hi, it's me again... for those who've been following my posts, would appreciate your advice & comments.. my hb somehow managed to get my new address, and last nite he appeared at my doorstep, pleading & begging me to give him another chance. he said he & his mom had a...

hi sm, having some trouble with your PM, but anyway, u can email me at [email protected] thanks!

btw, what are the typical terms of a DOS? If i don't get the lawyer to prepare it, how else would i go about drawing one up?

ok, thanks everyone for your advice. i'll make it a point to change my IC address tml.

What should I do if he refuses to sign a DOS? What are my options?

sm, i can see where u are coming from, but it was never my intention to ask for maintenance. while i upkeep my end of the monthly installments on the house & other miscellaneous items, but for whose enjoyment? for my husband and his mother to enjoy? shld i write-off monies which i had...

i've learnt a hard & expensive lesson...

do u know why i had to resort to using a lawyer? because amicable discussions don't get anywhere with him. after all the money that i had lent him, there has been no indication or effort to start any form of repayment. i've brought it up many times, but he just sighs & says he has to pay his...

i suspect he had sought some sort of advice in coming up with the letter to my lawyer; my husband could never write so well. so looks like things aren't going to be easy. pls pray for me!! sigh....

hi honesty, i'm ok, thanks for yr concern. think things are going to get pretty ugly btw my husband and i. he has been asking me to move back, again offering the solution to buy another plc... my lawyer has written to him to request for notional rental. my lawyer today informed me that...

on another note, i'm not even happy about my hb's proposal to let my mil stay in our spacious flat. why give her the benefit??

yeah samgirl... i can imagine what will happen once her son received the lawyer's letter. i'll sure to kenna scolding from her. she prob still thinks i'm like her - playing strategy games by leaving home like that. if only staying separately is a solution to all problems, i wouldn't mind...

hi samgirl, don't worry, i have no intention of shifting back. my husband has called me several times saying he doesn't wish for divorce. my lawyer shld be sending a letter to my hb anytime now to request for separation & that he pay me some rental in return for his (and his mom's)...

melon, i agree with samgirl. you've seen my story. really there's only so much her son can do... don't get caught in my situation. it becomes even more heartbreaking for all involved once you sign the papers.

Samgirl, you’ve just correctly summarized my entire thought process. I know my mil won’t change, I also know my hb will always have a soft spot for his mom, no matter what happens, which is why I hesitate now. Honestly, I can probably forgive my hb for being weak, but I cannot forgive my...

jcys, yah, not only did she take all our ang pow, she also took the pin jin, jewellery (incl that which other ppl gave me), got me to pay her money, took money from my hb for dunno-what, & 'borrowed' money from other relatives for various unknown reasons... she's like a black hole...