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    Gg to marry without parents' blessing...sad...

    dear pink cloud, To start to make the moves to ease the tension is to start seeing her lesser. If better, don't meet at all. Because in reality, she doesn't like you. The sight of you disgust her. So to let her cool down, don't see her at all. Only see her during special occasions like CNY. She...
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    Do you give money to parents in laws?

    i don't practice giving money to PIL because once i start giving, i cannot withdraw back. i use to buy MIL gifts but i realize that when at times i didn't buy, she started complaining to relatives etc. so now, i stopped everything. my PIL don't remember what good deeds i do. But one bad deed i...
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    Gg to marry without parents' blessing...sad...

    ggoldfish, it's good to have parents blessing. i experience somewhat similar like you and have gone through everything. just that mine is more complicated. Right now, blessed with own children already. i had my parents blessing but my hb didn't had his. we were in relationship for 6 years...
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    Interacial Marriage - Does it work?

    Snow, "ALSO, quick question: If we decide to go through the whole ROM thing, are there religious people that would step in and start giving orders and directives?" Snow...your answer to the above question is NO. We're not in Malaysia. We're in Singapore. We're not an islamic country. We're a...
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    Interacial Marriage - Does it work?

    powderful: i always provide constructive comments but i do get agitated when ppl assume malay means muslim. Because it doesn't apply now in this century. During our parents' time, yes. Our time, no. For snow's postings, her bf could be muslim that's why she's in agony. No idea why. Could be...
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    Interacial Marriage - Does it work?

    powderful, eh, didn't i say you're right? How many times must say ah?!! Halal Tofu? Err..tofu no need to be halal. It's not chicken meat or beef or mutton.
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    Interacial Marriage - Does it work?

    simpleman, The reason why your friends who converted to muslim attended religious classes is because they want to legalize their conversion process. Before they're given the "green card" (this card is used to legalize all your personal documents for eg. passport / IC etc except Birth cert...
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    Interacial Marriage - Does it work?

    powderful: you're right. Logical to assume malay = muslim. After pondering and having 2nd thoughts, if i meet a chinese guy, i will also assume chinese = buddhist / taoist. angmoh = christians. And after reading snow post,like you said, her bf should be muslim. Agree with you on that. But...
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    Interacial Marriage - Does it work?

    simpleman: "malay means muslim". You so long stay in Singapore you think all malay = muslims? You dumb or what? Like that.. chinese means buddhist. Indian means Hindu. Angmoh means christian. Duh??!?! so convert to muslim, "change name to siti"? like that, if convert to christian must...
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    A Place To Vent Anger on Monster In Laws

    Hi, After reading through all your postings, i wonder how come some of you still able to "tahan" the nonsence from in-laws? When i'm faced with nonsence from in-laws, i just walked away. As much as i respect in-laws but if they treat me like outsider, i don't see why i should not treat them...
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    Pimple cream - which works best?

    Vichy anti-imperfections cream. Not bad..
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    Any Mixed Marriages here? Esp Chinese-Malay Muslim couple

    Cuclainne Congratulations!!!!!!!!! Your girl is so beautiful. And wow!!! Big baby! Mat saleh sizelah!
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    Any Mixed Marriages here? Esp Chinese-Malay Muslim couple

    marnie, Now LCD getting cheaper. During that time, there was a promotion for flat tv also (by samsung). I was too lazy to check out the promotion. In the end, the price i paid for a normal tv is almost equivalent to the samsung flat tv. Sigh.. Top another bit more of course can get LCD tv. But...
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    Any Mixed Marriages here? Esp Chinese-Malay Muslim couple

    Ally, when you going online again har? can set date with me a not? You haven't finish telling me the story about your cc....
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    Any Mixed Marriages here? Esp Chinese-Malay Muslim couple

    Elaine, Get this book from Periplus Mini Cookbooks: Homestyle malay cooking. Very cheap. Less than $5 and it's good! Teach you all the homestyle malay cooking.
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    Any Mixed Marriages here? Esp Chinese-Malay Muslim couple

    Elaine, Hmm..just a suggestion. Dishes: 1. Curry chicken 2. Beef / mutton rendang 3. Udang sambal (sambal prawn) 4. Baguette(from delifrance) 5. Ketupat / lemang / lepat (can buy from arab street area). I remember there is a lemang shop there. your guests have the option to eat the...
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    Any Mixed Marriages here? Esp Chinese-Malay Muslim couple

    Elaine, Malays don't have special occasion soup unlike chinese. But i don't think malay soups are suitable to serve during occasions like Hari Raya. I know malay soups like sup buntut (ox-tail soup), sup bayam (spinach soup), sup sayur (vegetable soup) err..what else ah... all these not...
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    Any Mixed Marriages here? Esp Chinese-Malay Muslim couple

    Ally, Yeah..i know. But $150 not much lah. The infantcare is better. $400 subsidy. Then again, infantcare also expensive. Yah, not working is $75 subsidy only. Elaine, I'm so curious. When your hubby's whole kampong come to your house to makan during Hari Raya, what do you usually whipped...
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    Any Mixed Marriages here? Esp Chinese-Malay Muslim couple

    Ally, No.. this time near my workplace. Got staff rate and further subsidy for FTWM.
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    Any Mixed Marriages here? Esp Chinese-Malay Muslim couple

    Elaine, Yes it is!! For the toddler class, majority all ratio of 1:8! (1 teacher : 8 toddlers). cuclainne, No, my side don't have infantcare. Enrolling him in the toddler class. Got staff rate.. then FTWM got $150 subsidy. Hehe...so even cheaper. Good luck! Hope you get a place for peanut.

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