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vios, you were saying that personally u will not endorse it....what were u referring to?

thanks ryanmel. I will talk to my married friend 1st. hope everything goes well.....

I am thinking of whether to tell the wife, but I do not want to ruin their relationship. by being friendly with her isn't he sending her the wrong signals?

if a gal does all of the below: 1. msges you to update you on her life. 2. becomes upset and cries when you don't reply or tell her that you prefer her not to sms her. 3. is very concerned about your safety, and well being 4. tells you that she will always be there for you 5. tells you that...

agree with you. I am ok with my SO looking at beautiful women, or having a tv gf...but just that (and perhaps I am more conservative) so I do get concerned when people view porn, and do think why they do that....

i see. thanks SM. Culainne, hm..though I find other guys visually appealing, they just dont' appeal to me as much as my SO...perhaps because we have gone through so much together, that, we just in our own world, that, other guys just don't match up. I am not saying other guys are ugly, but my SO...

my boss also micro manages. He also loves to please his bosses, and will do anything to impress them, which includes making our lives miserable by asking us to spend alot of time to do useless things (when our hands are already tied down by heavy work, and by stepping on other people's toes. He...

hm...what is SO?

ice creamy, a wife must not forget that while her needs and duties has changed as she has become a mother, the husband's needs have not changed much. He still has his sexual needs, which did not change before the baby arrived, and will not change even after the baby has arrived. Ice creamy, your...

Hi Powderful and Doll, thanks alot for your well meaning advice. I know what to do now. Communicating with you guys really made me learnt alot today. Yes, since he's a nice guy then he should take care of me. will not be able to come to the forum for the next two days. But if u have further...

Hi powerful, thanks alot. will definetely follow your advice. since young I had no one to look up to or to advice me. Sorry if I sound stupid, but when you said to take this opportunity with this new guy to start these changes, do u mean to change myself in my relationship with him? and to take...

not in that sense. I tend to give alot cos I can't give my love to my mum. she rejects me whenever I want to do something good, even for CNY. And I don't have any siblings to love. So I "shift" my attention to my friends, by showing them concern, giving them support, the way I would like to...

yes, my family background. Though my parents divorced, and my dad left my family, I was not happy with my mum as she did not give me love like a family would. Thus, I "seek" love from outside. And I do give alot to others too, including female friends, classmates, etc. I tend to give alot...

Hi Powder, thanks for the info. my guy friend's job involves training others, so it can be tough. thanks for giving a different perspective of army life. will get to know him better... Hi Doll, I know. Love also includes accepting another person's weakness, accepting his faults, and being...

Hi Doll, what should I do then? In general, for relationships, does it mean I will have to wait for him to give me sacrifices too?

Hi Vallous, I have read your posts in another thread on SAF regulars before, so I know what u mean. I have known this guy before his divorce, and I have worked on school projects before with him, so I know what u mean when you say that their hours are irregular and that they really have no time...

Hi Vallous, my guy friend is an army guy, and what attracts me about him is that he is very strong, responsible, disciplined and he is very family oriented. But due to his work schedules, his often being away from home due to work commitments, his wife and him stopped communicating and she...

Hi fellow doll, nope, I have never been in a relationship before. I have been told that I am idealistic about relationships at times. Doll and Powderful, how should I deal with insecurity issues? read more books or make more guy friends. I have alot of female friends, but very few guy...

Hi fellow doll, perhaps I am thinking too much...have been thinking alot lately...and he always like me to sms him cos I tend to tell jokes via smses so I even do that secretly at work. I am at least happy he feels comfy with me...ok, I'll enjoy the friendship first!!

green, I have difficulty in trusting men, cos my parents divorced and my dad abandoned us for another woman. and I am so afraid that this will happen to me and my future hubby too.... thanks, green, for the advice. will take it up....