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since you say your family can support the child, then keep it. if this was your first accident pregnancy, i will say go for abortion. but you already killed four lives. you should let this one live and not sin anymore. all i ask is that you ensure that your family can care for the baby and...

yup, i agree with may. i think we can take this opportunity to bring up the point about how those who are depressed can seek help. because a lot of people have the misguided belief that a person in depression should "wake up" and not hurt others close to them. but it often doesn't happen...

i understand where you're coming from, powder. i agree with you too that suicide will only make life even more painful for those who are alive. but she's already dead. my pt was tt it's ok to just let it be? but it's good that you want to protect impressionable minds agnst the romantic...

understand your dilemma. actually you also know that it is of your own doing (remember forummers advised you against pregnancy last time). i think if you want to abort again, you need to check with your dr about how seriously it may affect your fertility. you have a long way ahead of you...

then it is powder who jumped the gun lor. bcos i only saw tribute to kerin, which i took to mean, a tribute to her life. i guess you guys linked tribute with her death. but in fact, the title is tribute to kerin. not tribute to how she killed herself. so this thread is not abt glorifying...

strange tt u would do keyword search when the posts are all above. cos he didn't spell out people mah. he said "such actions and pple". if you don't agree with kerin's actions, don't come to this thread. this thread title is "tribute to kerin". it's not "comment whether you think what she...

milo, powder's first post before mine and yours mentioned that her death is causing more pain to the family and we shld not glorify "such people". maybe he can answer what he meant by "such people"? also, internet full of even more glorifying tributes to koreans who killed themselves...

hi milo, i am not saying we should glorify her act lah. just that she's already dead and something terrible happened to her before to cause the suicide, so it will be good if we can show some sympathy instead of judge her by saying that she was "self-centred" (see powder's post) and didn't...

i feel sorry for her family too. suicide definitely wrong, but my point is, i don't think people in her shoes will be able to make clear-headed decisions. hope the police can find out the reason for the husband's suicide. at least can have some closure for the family.

Don't judge her. Her hb jumped off the hotel on their wedding night. It's a shock that not many people can take.

Sad and Heartbroken, Agree with powder's post. If your hb is still unrepentant, no pt holding on. As you said, whether he is there or not doesn't make much difference bcos he doesn't make an effort or involve himself with caring for your daughter. Sometimes marriage changes people. Over...

Miyako, Can pm me already.

Dear Sad and Heartbroken, Yup, ignore Scope. I just want to make one pt abt your daughter. Don't make her hate her father. We all know that in rs and marriage, there are no guarantees. The fact is cruel but simple, your hb had an affair and now the woman won't leave him alone. Now you need...

You sound like a sensible girl and from what you said in later posts, your boss is not quite right too. Why does he give you a present, but not give other colleagues? Be careful. Some married men may continue to work their charms on single girls, just to see if they still have what it takes...

hi stardust, has your hb agreed to see a counsellor with you? you need to, i feel, to help you along the process and re-establish the trust that was lost.

Is this boss a friend, e.g. you still meet up for drinks after work, or is your dealing with him strictly in the office? If you're saying that you know him as a person and a friend, it is possible your feelings for him are genuine. But if it's not even that, then it's not feelings but crush...

christane, sorry to hear about your grandfather. hope he will manage to recover. at this time, try to focus more on your grandfather than your boyfriend. your bf should be around more for you, but now is not the time to quarrel with him. if he doesn't want to help you more, let it be. why...

the truth is, no matter guys or girls, we will take our good friends views into consideration. if your spouse likes his friends, and you can't get along with them, it's pretty obvious that it won't win you any brownie points. but having said that, i agree with you that your hb's friends sound...

meubel, You sound very bothered by this, but I think the best way to handle this is to remain calm. Since attention is what he wants from you, why don't you give him a call and find out how he is? From what you say, he sounds like a spiteful guy. Perhaps he's getting back at you for...

both of you have to make the effort to create the sparks. did you tell him how you feel and how boring your life is now? lots of couples face this problem after they've been together for some time. even the movie sex and the city 2 deals with this problem... maybe you should watch it. no...