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Hi 60secs, I certainly hope that friend of yours is not the same person as my hubby lols. Hi guys and gals, I wanted initially to try out if the forum could provide me with the moral support I need, much like a Twelve Steps group. I thought for the first week i focused on putting out...

Hi all again,  I was reading a letter I wrote to a friend some years back. The letter years back reflected my dare, my passion for life and my willingness to step out of my comfort zone, at that time. I have lost so much of them. I realise my outlook on life has been dimmed and dulled by my...

Dear Ting Yi, I was reading an earlier post from you to another forumer: "My hb .... read my mind when my face slightly change, he can sense it immediately. He sat me down and we tackled the issue. He see me more of his equal. ..... my hb's the one that I always run to after some heart crush...

Hi all, Just for updating purposes: My hubby wanted to discuss about our marital issues, and then options, on Thursday which is today. He told me he needed a few more days as he has difficulty finishing THE BOOK in time. He has been rather busy at work this week. All the rush to close...

Dear Fairyprincess and watching,  "Well, usually, a husband IS part of the marriage, but I see you do not think that way- I guess what you mean is "you need to sort out your thinking and action steps to take towards your marriage"...that is fine too..." (Fairyprincess) Just to clarify...

(cont'd) We are all entitled to our observations, arent we? But if your observations of me are based on false premises, and you tell me these yourself, I would like you to know so that you will get to know me better. From my vantage point, you are not really relating or trying to understand in...

(cont'd) miLo, I said you are not interested in my situation. Perhaps that was too blanket a statement. I would say on one hand you are, on the other hand you are not. Why do i say that? Usually you don't ask me, but gave me food for thought. Some are hardly relevant. But I still thanked you. ...

(cont'd) How I interpret your post was this: I explain like crazy to forumers here last week. The way I interact in this forum appears to you to reflect how i interact with my hubby at home. And it will freak you out if your spouse is like this. And you held this observation since our first...

miLo, I regret my actions and words this morning. I have my points but regret the way i put it across. My apologies for the unnecessary outburst on my part. I prefer to deal with any issues quickly rather than sit on them, and so here goes: This is potentially a last post I will answer you...

You need to understand how important this network is to me. Without the likes of Ting Yi, Powder and wandering helping me process, I would be still unable to take any step forward to file or to go hunt for a place to move out to. Perhaps Tomas and yourself find my story easy to understand. Tomas...

(cont'd) My hubby responds somewhat like you. He is not interested in my affairs, miLo. So i can tell and i gave up trying. In case, you think he is just enduring me when i talk to him, then let me tell you something: he is not a pushover. Far from it. My hubby is a different man at home...

miLo, I think i know what you were saying last night. I woke up this morning realising what you mean: Are you saying the way I interact in this forum reflects how i interact with my hubby? And so it is scary to you if your spouse is like!. this? miLo, I interact in the forum for only...

Hi powder, thank you so much for all your insights and help.

"To be frank, Danielle, how you are responding to basically everyone is quite scary in my context. Its kind of tiring maintain conversation with a person that seems to have an interpretation and response over every detail. This is the reason I have been rather indirect in my initial msg to...

Hi miLo, there is a minor edit on line 5 above - to further clarify my position. FYI. And good night.

Hi miLo, I can only envy you and what you have now in your marriage. Earlier when I said I can't tell anyone about my hubby's family, work etc - it is not that I am such a gossip or blabber mouth, just to clarify. I was trying to say I can't say anything, not even anything. When my father in...

And Powder, did you receive my PM about your more recent post? If not, can you PM me instead? If you rather not, it's fine with me too. Cheers!! PS: for some reasons, no one ever receive my PMs -.-

Hi Powder, Wrt your post on Friday, February 01, 2013 - 8:00 pm SG time: "there's stuff in there which i respect u and consider u a peer... thus i shared stuff with u at a higher plane. ... U cantrust me on this one Danielle - u already lead a much fuller life, and will continually do...

Hi Power, I am slow at reading, so I am still stucked at 2 previous posts of yours: "I think of death everyday... becos it is my motivation to live..... Death is the single most effective life-changing agent. i've embraced it as a fren for over 30yrs...." (Post dated Tuesday, January 29...

Hi Tomas, I won't. Thank you