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Hi Doll, I've enabled my PM. Thanks.

Hi Doll, Can you PM me your lawyer's contact? Thanks

Stardust, I guess you know the reason yourself why you kept suspecting him when you kept saying that you trusted him all these while. You can lie to the world but not yourself. It seems that you are trying so hard to brainwash yourself that you trust your husband but deep down inside you just...

Hi Claire, I've tried to PM you but you don't accept PM. Can you switch on your PM?

Give up, Have you gone for the counselling? It is beneficial to me, as it can help me straightened out thoughts and come to a decision myself. On top of that, it also helps me to explore some of the things that were not thought of previously. I continued the counselling despite my...

I agree with what powder said, we can't just give in to the mum just because she is the mum etc. I think it has got nothing to do with filial piety. It is just a lame excuse for the hubby to avoid 'potential problem' with his mum and wants Chan to speak to his mum and he is in the 'good guy'...

Give up, I don't look down on you too. I think you are far too kind and kena step all over by them and especially by your husband. I won't have this much of the magnanimity if I were you. No matter what you do or how much you sacrifice for him, it's no use, he won't appreciate and he...

Hi, Can I join too?

Hi Silensiozo, I've pm you.

stardust, Love ourselves more.

Stardust, How are you feeling? Hope you are feeling better.

Joey, Good that you find out the true colour of your bf before you get married. It is wise that you are moving on. If not, you have more heartaches if you marry him. You may have to deal with his affairs or flings after marriage. Your ex seemed to have insecurity issues. It seems like he...

Silensiozo, Of course, I'm taking action and I'm giving myself a fixed period of time to let go. Like what doll said in other post, our youth is finite. I'm healing my heart, letting go of the relationship slowly, looking for job to be financially independent, looking for support groups for...

Some of the wife may know the womanising ways and forgave the husband or act nothing happened for whatever reason they have. Some of the wife, were in the dark for so many years and didn't know the womanising ways of the husband because they covered the track so well. But no matter how...

Silensiozo, hahaha, SBF in his case means sammyboyforum. Not our singapore bride forum. Same acryomn though.

I think it is more of a power play here. He wanted to be in control, sometimes people like to feel respected and important. Agree with Hei Bee hiam that your father may have some insecurities. At least you set boundaries for your marriage and you won't side your father just to be filial...

Silensiozo, For your case, he will tell you that he wants to watch porno to get arousal. For my case, he is not willing to tell me anything. So I don't know anything about what he wants. Sign. He care more about his own pleasure though. Strange. My friends also commented that both of us...

Hi giveup, Do be strong. I'm like you, without job now, and am looking for a job. I'm also taking the steps like what Mistral has suggested to you. I had also planned to get a job first, be financially independent. Then got some savings for the divorce and get a lawyer then lastly I'll break...

Silensiozo, I understand how you feel too. I'm slowly retrieving the love I have for him and I intend to leave this marriage too. I agree with you that life is too short to procrastinate because I'm also not young anymore. Instead of thinking whether can I still take 'this' anymore, I...

Heartpain, Don't need to explain to him. I also did that and got the same reply like your husband. They are too self-centred to look beyond their point of view. To them, it is always our fault. I don't agree with SM that we allow people to abuse us then we deserve it. No one deserves to be...