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Hi Milo Thanks for your advice. I am working on it,hoping to reduce the animosity feelings with my MIL. Yes, you are right, MIL and DIL conflicts is not the end of the world. Its just a part and parcel of life. Now I will try to minimise my conflicts with MIL as not to jeopardise our...

Hi Milo I remember vividly of your conflcits with your mother which you mentioned much earlier, but all I can tell you is that it is very easy to forgive your biological mum, but as you know my MIL is not biologically related to me, she is just someone I have to accept whether I like it or...

Hi Faith Actually, my MIL is the type who is very confident about my husband filial piety towards her, thats why she bullied me verbally. On many occasions where she humiliate me jokingly in the presence of my hubby, my husband remain nonchalant and has never once refuted her verbal attacks...

Hi Shufen I think your MIL very confident that your husband will not dessert her because of you, she is also very confident that she is able to break you and her son up, thats why she keep attacking you, thats also why she has the audacity to slap you. Thats how my MIL treat my the other...

Hi Shufen OMG your MIL is too much. How can she slap you when you are pregnant? I think your situation worse than mine. No matter what, a MIL should never slap DIL just because of the things she say, even if insulting. Yeah man, if her daughter get slap by MIL, I think she will storm to in...

Hi shufen How can your MIL slap you? After all you are not her biological daughter.Thats too much OMG No wonder you so hate her, by the way what trigger her to slap you? I mean I am so flabeergasted hearing this. I find it so incredible. Hi MIlo Yeah you are right, I can choose to let it...

HI shufen Then where your MIL stay when you get another house? Is your husband her only son? Dun divorce your husband because of her, your MIL will be over the moon. I can fully understand your misery of staying with MIL. Imagine everyday after work go home have to hide in room to avoid...

Moving out? My PIL dun have their own house. This solution I have suggested to my husband but he want to stay with his parents. My MIL insults can be just out of the blue, it can be we are chatting happily about something then she start off her insults. I think she is also venting her...

Yes I am indeed very frustrated. How good can a MIL be when she often cause me and my husband to fight? Because of my PIL, I developed a kind of phobia for elderly people. I wonder are all elderly people like this?

Hi shufen If you are having a hard time staying with MIL, I am sure you understand my situation too. So what do you response when she said you deaf or no mouth? Its possible not to communicate at all? You know if you dun even answer MIL, she will feel very sore about it, as she will feel...

I told my husband that I want to stay separately with him. Maybe I will rent a room outside and meet him up every few days.I dont want to live miserably forever facing my PIL. I feel very very miserable. When I told my husband about his mother insults, in fact he heard it loud and clear too...

Its so frustrating, the MIL issue can never be resolved easily. Its very simple theory, my MIL has prejudice against me, and vice versa. When you put two such person together, there are bound to have conflcits and sensitivity. So the best thing is to avoid her, avoid her as much as possible...

Hi Milo I did not say no communication with her. I said I only talk to her when necessary. When she buy me food I would still thank her. I have conflicts with my MIL for almost a decade. Dont you get it? We simply cannot get along. You think its so easy to build good relationship with MIL...

Hi Junkie, as in my previous posts, I have decided to ignore my MIL, which means I will avoid gatherings, avoid talking to her much, I only talk to her when necessary like when she ask me something and I reply her monosyllabic answers, and when I talk to her its only when necessary when I need...

Actually I do not want to get involved in the problem between and SIL and MIL. Afterall, its their problem. But sometimes when my SIL confide in me, I will offer a listening ear. I already told her many times to employ a maid, but she refused as she has many apprehensions.

Hi milo Imagine in one week she insulted me three times when there is no quarrel. I forget the first insult and move on, I met her for second time for breakfast she did it again for no apparent reason. Its like I already got over the first insult, then she haunt me again with another insult...

Hi MIlo You are right. My PIL dont want to take care of grandchildren. They should just say they dun want, dun have to give so many excuses. And their excuses are very lame. I think conflict between MIL and DIL arises also because out of jealousy. MIL is very afraid of losing their...

Here is another part of the story When my SIL first kid is one year plus and she had another accidental pregnancy, both she and her husband were contemplating about abortion, but my MIL assured them that she will help SIL so she should keep the baby. So both my SIL and her husband keep...

Hi Ladies Just be thankful if your MIL got help you take care of your children while you go out working. Dont find flaws in their methods of taking care. Be thankful that at least your MIL help, unlike my MIL who always give lame excuses everytime when my SIL asked her to help, and also...

Hi everyone Thanks for all your responses. Well, I have tried my best to tolerate her, but as I have a strong pride, I find myself very vulnerable to her verbal attacks. I am changing my strategy now. I think the best is to dodge her as much as I can. Which means I will not meet her up for...