Milo, on a serious note...i believe Scope's advice has some practicality and realism to it.
U may not choose to accept this but there is no right or wrong in this forum. we are sharing our views so that anyone can choose to benefit from it.
Milo...simply put.
ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS.
Take concrete steps instead of "101" proper counseling like u are suggesting.
She does not need these at this stage.
My advice to Yi Ling is to calm yourself down and take charge of your life.
Go on a holiday. Get a new prospective of the direction u wanna take. Be pro-active.
You have 2 kids right now. It is not going to help them if u are going to wallow in yr situation or just accept, etc.
chocolatte, i am not laughing. Someone is going thru a tough patch in her life.
Scope has a point too. Dun belittle it just because u think your is the only right one.
Milo...if i am right, as you claim i am.
Then shouldn't you be the one leaving ?????
Your england also cannot make it.
Wah lau, maths and england ....one big F