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    Unreasonable Dowry

    Yes. If my mother didnt help me, I think we will be in deep shit. Marriage is crazy exp and if our family still ask for pin jin, its going to weight down on us. After all, the tradition for now is usually that the couple will share out the cost and it no longer fall on the groom's family.
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    Unreasonable Dowry

    My mum ask for 4 tables n no pin jin. She say as long as we are happy. She also took out 16k fr her savings to tide me thru
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    (2015/05) May 2015 wedding

    I m not a may btb.. I m a feb btb
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    (2015/05) May 2015 wedding

    Totally.this is really a headache getting them to meet. My htb parents are traditional n they want to meet asap. My mum says its ok to meet 2 months before wedding n we had a fight over this. Finally, they met up without any fuss.
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    The (Ex) Wife

    Great to hear that. In that case, she is just being a bitch. Its a tough thing but I think just pick up the kids with your bf as per normal and ignore her. She might be just plain jealous that the kids are happy & her ex hubby is happy with u too but dont fall into the trap by snapping at her...
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    The (Ex) Wife

    Have u ever wonder how much truth there is in each? From your bf and his (ex) wife. Maybe you will then know why she brand u as a third party. You might not be the third party right when they broke up but the truth might not be as what u think. That's why the ex wife is mad with you,unless she...
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    I feel like dying

    Hi, I am sorry but I have to say this. Is that how you should behave as a mother? If you think u had a terrible life, what about others? My mother got a divorce from my father when I was 10 years old. My father left us in this shit and my mother worked 12 hours a day to bring the 3 of us up. She...
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    Should I marry someone who had annulment before?

    Hi louvre. The answer is yes. You should marry the guy who loves you as much as you love him whether he had an annulment or not bcos in my opinion,that is not important. BUT since you have already decided " bcos in your posting, you say that u understand how your mother feels as she might not...
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    Should I marry someone who had annulment before?

    I dont think u should despise or maybe feel your parents might feel humiliated. Bcos loving someone is different. Everybody makes mistake and u cant penalised him just bcos he made a mistake when he is young. He might be abit naive when he was 24 and signed a document without understanding it...
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    Financial Problems

    Actually my hubby was v stressed also bcos he wants to get a resale flat immediately,but I can wait for bto.. amyway, we kind of shifted off the idea and he is much relaxed now
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    Financial Problems

    Anyway, I understand that its v stressful. And I think if you could help him with as much as u can. It will relieve his burden. When they are super stressed, they will just flare up at us. My hubby to be is still nagging me about certain issues,less than before but at least, we did iron out the...
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    Financial Problems

    Well I had a similar problem. We both agreed to chip in together n have a simple rom with around 80 guests only. But his side of guests roll up till 140 alone n he started blaming me that I wanna bridal photoshoot and etc.. but its not as though I will not be paying. The last straw was he was...
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    Rom n wedding lunch

    Thanks everybody! Yea. 1 checklist done
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    Rom n wedding lunch

    Hi alyoop. We are holding on this year dec21st lunch. We would really like to have the whole restaurant but bcos we have another wedding lunch banquet on feb 2015 for 190 guests so we can only invite 30 guests.
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    No Gate Crash and Jiemeis?

    Pre wedding shoot must be expensive
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    Rom n wedding lunch

    We have decided! We will hold it at amara sanctuary sentosa. Its a glass pavilion with in door air conditioning area for lunch at 5k and 30 guests.
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    Rom n wedding lunch

    I heard hort park is very hot in the afternoon bcos one of my frd's frd held it there and everyone was sweating non stop. Plus. We actually have a budget. So maybe the 6k for rom will have to be self paid but he I dont know how he will react n feel about it.
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    Rom n wedding lunch

    Actually I was looking at amara sanctuary . They have this aircon glass house for solemnisation n min 30 pax for lunch at 70++. I actually want a casual wedding n we planned for 120 px initally but it got out of hand n we have to abandon the first plan in which I was pretty upset bcos that was...
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    Rom n wedding lunch

    Thats what I told him but he says it feel weird n the wedding lunch would have no meaning.
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    Rom n wedding lunch

    My htb wants to hold a wedding lunch at peony jade for 190 guests. But its not my dream wedding. My dream wedding is a small and intimate one in the open air. We had a few fights over it bcos I really want my dream wedding. So I suggested having a rom but at my dream wedding venue. That will...

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