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Think my hb duno the seriousness!!! To him, i'm just making a fuss. Is work important than family?? sigh...totally give up..

Milo, yes of coz i think of going for marriage counsellor but..just but. Am i very selfish just to leave the marriage like tat? shd think for my son too? he's stl so young, suddenly just lost a complete family.

Like what Milo said, hb also must be understanding and supportive but i dun hv such a supportive hb. I'm glad im a independence person, dun rely on hb much.

Iris, of coz i want my son. But i want to divorced in peace n not 撕破脸 unless situation is out of control. Got once, she called up my office to spot-check me, check whether did i really go work or go play. Sigh....

Shared custody, normally court will grant kids to stay with mother? or is depends?

Seriously, if divorced there will be another big fight again with my MIL. The custody of my son. She already warned me b4, if divorced i must put behind my son if not she will get her gangs to snatch my son from me. She totally behave like hooligans, nv seen such a MIL b4. Sigh....

Milo, if my hb can think just like you, alot of things can be prevented. But he dun, he will only wake up when he lost his wife n son. All he needs is his mum only then i shall grant his wish.

Sheena, DIL will be always DIL. If we disrespect them, we will kena mark. And the black mark will always be there. She will always bring up the history whenever we argue. I'm really tired staying in this home, my hb is not doing anything, i'm not happy at all.

Milo, u might be rite, if i divorced, my hb got to bear all the consequences. How many times i suggest to move out, he just dun agreed, just because he needs to take care his mum. I'm not saying u cannot take care of her but there is alot of way to take care, just because he stay w her, meaning...

Doll, ya a sudden attack, i was shocked too. And she think she is rite to slap me for bad attitude. If her daughter kena slap by her MIL, i think she won't sit down there shaking her legs.

Sheena, just an arguement on who is rite and who is wrong and i was carrying my son (5 mths). Now my son is 3 years old, i cannot beat him at all if not sure got another fight w her. Grandson is her precious and if i divorced she sure fight w me on the custody.

Sheena, yr MIL is not tat bad like my MIL. My MIL slapped me b4 and that is the most hurtful things she did and i will never forgive her on that. ya, my hb only son but he got another elder sis, married too but my MIL wont stay with her even tho our relationship getting worst. Son will be...

Doll, many many more, nv ending story. It really looks like korea drama, think my story can film as a show. Tats y my hb kind of immune, bo chap. He is living in his own world.

ya Sheena, i dun talk to her at all, i left home with my boy before because of her, but in the end return home as i feel that y shd i left? home is mine and house under my name, it will benefit her more if i left. We have many many conflicts, even she got conflicts with my parents. For long-term...

hmm....ok guys, she just being upset, i know how she feel. The conflicts with her MIL is deepen in her heart. No matter how, is kind of hard to accept such MIL. Sheena, me too choosed dun to talk to my MIL but end up she said i'm deaf or no mouth? well, just dun let her got chance to provoke...

Doll/Little woman, yes he expects me to change and except his mum. This morning i quarel w him again becoz of 1 call from his mum. He said i always do my own way, my feeling of divorcing is getting stronger n stronger.

My MIL dun watch korea drama. She only likes to gamble. Nowadays she is using the PC whole day, playing online majong, no need to work, no need to take care grandkids, so free.... until trying to start fire w me again n again so i choosed to work and send my son to child care. It does help to...

"Your husband needs to play this role well. The conflict of interest between MIL and DIL is real and we don't pretend it doesn't exist. It must be managed." Sad to say, until now my hb cannot do anything, he is the one who is immune rather than me. 4 years! is not getting better, it's...

haha Milo is rite. "Immune to it" well i'm still learning the Immune tactic. Sigh... sometimes i wanted to tell her: Better lock your lock tight when u r sleeping coz i'm not sure i will chop u into pieces!

Hi Sheena, so u staying w yr PIL? or just yr MIL? anyway, yr hb not siding u so dun dream of moving out...for me, i got a nasty MIL too, saying all kinds of nasty remarks to the relatives. But wat to do, my hb is the only son so we got to stick w her, i just treat her as invisible, i dun...