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I feel very disturbed that especially of late, there seems to be a trend of the regulars here easily gathering to start attacking and flaming a threadstarter once they think what the threadstarter says appears to be ridiculous. A lot of rationale and logic, very little empathy displayed and here...

qian qian, to keep mum about it will not help matters one bit. Sooner or later, the truth will still come to light. If anything, the more you keep quiet about it, the more his gambling habit will be reinforced because nobody knows about it.

123, From what I'm seeing, you are still hoping to save him. I'm not saying trying to save your marriage or save him is wrong, but we must understand where the line is drawn where it's already tried and done and dusted. You are still carrying hopes that things need not be this way. From...

123 (seems a bit strange to address you like that), I believe that if you are able to show tht you have the financial means ie. a proper job to show that you can raise your daughter, and if your daughter has stated clearly that she wants to stay with you, your chances of getting your daughter's...

hint hint hint. initiate dinner. hint hint hint. *expects ex-bf to read minds* hint hint hint. hinting is not some mind controlling power that enables the other person to read your mind about what you want. *thinks of ways to scare bf* A relationship is not a mindgame. And nobody can...

Basically Ger's tunnel vision point is, "why are you (referring to ggoldfish and Ger's own sister) so selfish. Why did you never think of your own family and for your dad and mum. You bring misery upon all of us because of one guy outside." Translation is, "Our happiness lies in your...

ggoldfish, remember as i continue to emphasis this. focus on what you can do, not on what you can't control. At this point you already have your uncle and such who's prepared to help you. Why not focus your effort on them instead. Someone once said, one of the keys to happiness is to spend...

ggoldfish, some people just cannot be pleased. I believe that everyone is responsible for their own emotions and happiness. You are not in this world to please them, and it isn't that you haven't already tried as I mentioned before. There is a serenity prayer that goes.. "God, grant me the...

Ger, im afraid you must have not read my post clearly. I have absolutely no intention of pleasing anyone, never did, never will. I will go ahead with my decision of whoever I want to marry with or without anyone's approval. As I mentioned to golddfish earlier, this is an exhausting waste...

hi ggoldfish, all of us would like our parents blessings for sure for our marriage. Who won't want a happy marriage with the blessings, well-wishes and acceptance from everybody around us? What I meant to say earlier on was, instead of spending so much energy and time trying to gain their...

Let he who has not sin cast the first stone. Nope im not a christian and all I can say is, in the grief cycle, what Jane Teo is going through is in the first stage, the anger stage. She feels betrayed, hurt, angry, and all these are just understatements. But deep down, what she really...

ggoldfish, if my guess is correct, it sounds like your bf has a history of mental illness based on the hints you have given. I have a strong possibility of ending up in a similar situation as you in the future, but im the guy in this case. Ultimately at the end of the day, I feel the...