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Hi, I am not sure how many of those who responded to my post are still around in this forum but I just want to sincerely thank all for the advice and encouragement given. I am now happily married to a guy who accepted my past wholeheartedly and I am just so relieved that I am able to let go the...

Hi, Nichie No, I did n’t agree to his proposal. I didn’t want him to do it just to make me feel better. He asked me what he should do to make me accept him and my past. Frankly, I myself am not sure what I want although I felt his sincerity, however, I am not sure what is stopping me from...

Love or gratitude? I don’t know why but I don’t really feel touched or loved when he proposed to me…I am more of surprise and a little sad…I was thinking is he doing it just to prove something…to prove that he can accept my past…to make me feel better…is it more out of sympathy or...

Hi He proposed to me recently. Its kind of takes me by surprise and never thought that he will do that. I still remembered that night when I decided to tell him my past. My heart was pounding very fast and I was in cold sweat, it’s a mix of shame, embarrassment and trepidation. He sensed...

Thanks all for the comments. I have decided to tell him my past because I felt that I have to learn to accept my own past before I can expect others to do the same. I dont wish to carry this burden with me anymore and its affecting my mood and the relationship. He has been asking what is...

I am not sure whether I am bothered by me feeling inferior or I am keeping a dark secret from him or how he will react when knew the truth, I guess is a mix of everything. Yes, its only 6 months and I should not worry too much now, however, if I am going to hide my past from him with an...

Whether worth telling? I get to know him when I joined the meditation class organized by my church. Although he has been attending the church for quite sometime but I have never take notice of him until then. I joined the meditation class to find peace with myself and Him but he joins to...

I wonder whether most guys in this world would mind his gf having a child of another man but miscarriage before, it must be very difficult for them to accept. Will you come clean with him and risk losing him? I will not blame him if he decided to leave me, its not his fault, I am the one to be...

Spotting although quite common during pregnancy but it should not be ignored as it might be an early sign of miscarriage. If bleeding (eg large amount) occurs, please head to EA immediately and contact your gynea. I am not sure about your tightness and discomfort in your tummy but if it increase...

Its been sometime before I have the courage to visit this site again….everything is like a dream to me…a bad dream and really wish it is… I remembered that day vividly about 3 months ago….I was in India for a business trip when I discovered I have spotting, it came intermittently, I...

Hi, Bluemoon I empathy with what you have gone through and it make me laugh when you said ‘Imagine doing my business in the toilet while carrying my baby in my arms’ but it also put things into perspective for me…..being a mom is not easy and a very tough job………… I think I...

Hi, shanna Yes...getting back to the pre-pregnancy weight is very important and a priority....i was told by Rem that she gain 20kg during her pregnancy and I was like…ok…never been so heavy before in my life…and I can see my weight is increasing bit by bit every day/week…kind of scary...

no..Miyako Toyoda is better....

kekeke..jz...sound like your personal experience.. I have the same thinking like you…eg.boy match with blue color…gal use pinky and cute cute stuff…kind like matching their sex…although I tend to like those girlish stuffs…ok..may be I am not realistic la…may be can wear ok liao…

Hi, milo Yes, it’s a Microsoft product and I heard that our company get it free or at minimum cost with other MS products…it seem like MS is not making much profit from this and have min tech support for it…plus our IT dept is understaffed...we are left to swim for ourselves after one...

Sorry, held up by a meeting……… Flyingstar Money draining?...ok..it sure sound expensive to have a baby…I did asked my mom about the cost but she tell me not to worry….during her times…people are poor but they still can have 4 or 5 kids..ok..but I was thinking…that is...

Sharepoint is the name of a software used by our company as a platform for our intranet and I am incharge of setting up my department intranet. It is giving me a lot problems initially and quite frustrated, matched my mood then, so I used it.

Hi. Milo Inherited? You mean used or 2nd hand? That is something new to me, I thought parents would always buy new stuffs for their new born, is it very common? Hope people will not think I am cheapskate. My friends are definitely too young to have baby before….

hi, bluemoon You and your hubby combine income should be more than 5k and you think you have problem raising 2 kids? How much is enough to raise a baby or kid nowadays? $1k/mth? I only know that some money is needed for delivery and clinic visit for the initial stage, milk powder cannot be so...

Sm, ok although I am surprise they are that open to a guy…I might not even tell my partner even I have done it although I am not sure there will be any scar or telltale sign.