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Thanks everyone for the advise. Just an update, things are still the same..we are going for a holiday soon..but somehow, this is the most stressful trip that I think I am going to make... He keeps telling me that I am great expect he feels no lust for me. Heartbroken everytime I hear that...

dear clueless.... mind if i ask if you are married to your gf afterall.. i am just in the same situation, only that the role is reverse. My bf is obviously not sexually attracted to me at all after yrs of being together. For my case, marriage seems to be out of the window as of now, as he...

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thanks milo...for the above post.. i ll bear it in mind...ya..7 yrs...lots of memories..that's y its such a difficult decision. I feel like i am the hanging man...clinging on to the cliff for my dear life before falling off eventually...ha..but your words remind me that something positive still...

thanks for the replies... sigh...actually though i agree giving him time off may be the last best option but deep down i dont dare to agree easily to the cooling off..cos i somehow believe that its just a pre-cursor for breaking up....in fact all the 'cooling off' couples that i hv seem ended...

hi miloice...thanks for entertaining my question. maybe i have been blocking truth from my conscious and i need cold hard post like yours...i really..dont know.. so no way to save it?..understd u r a man..u prob can reason it more logically than i do...

sorry...can i add on that he surfs porn almost every night.. could that be one of the reasons that he is not sexually attracted to me..maybe cos of the 'alter impression' resulting from too much unreal sence...?

Ok, he did sort of admit that everything is well (i.e. still hv feelings for me..) but just that he is somehow not sexually attracted to me anymore...contrast to how he always ask for it when we first started.... i always thought its quite common among couples who has been together for years...

Dear all, I thought long and hard before I have the courage to seek help for this long overdue problem of mine.... I have been with my bf for 7 years...we are compatible in many ways (feedback from frds n i agree too)..e.g. we have the chemistry, still have many things to talk about after so...