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Doll, u mentioned yr gf kept the secret from her kid for 6 yrs. My gal knows that daddy n mummy do not stay together. When she ask why, I simply told her thY some families are just like that.. Stay separate. And I reassure that we both still loves her lots. She seemed okay w my answer...

hi doll... really glad to see u ard ...;) I dunno if it will work... Cos I dun want him to bring our gal out with some other woman is in the picture.. And there is no way I can be sure unless I tag along. Also it still gives my kid the complete family image... Or maybe it's just me. Trying...

I will be happy... Trying to find the real me and to be what I can be...

Huh...5th wife?? Can't imagine going thru this 4 times... Well legally speaking, I'm no longer married... Just need a little more time to come to terms...

oh MILO n SIMPLEMAN are the other names i remember too.. awesome bunch here!

Its quite oomforting to find my thread still available in this forum. At least there is some familiarity in the messy world out there. I was jus thinking, when i was getting married, I was here to source for info. When my heart got broken, i was here to seek advise. And now, as I go thru my...

my bf now hubby used to be like tat. my 2 cents. i think basically you are not his priority.. hence he knows tat he can happily fall asleep n be late, and altho u are not so okay with it, u will still be okay in the end... basically u let him do this to u... so whenever he feels tired, he...

I am keen.... pls count me in! how to join?

Thanks doll... thanks for your encouragemt all these times. truly appreciated. I wanna get to know more single mothers in this forum. I jus want as much support i can get from other's experiences. i feel quite alone in my journey. putting up a front. n pretending that everything is okie...

Hi Doll, "But I still feel that it is better to know it than be in the dark on things." Wat are u refering to? Yup, got my inspiration fr powder. He said, "Life is bigger than our marriage and each other... " so i applied it to my case. Helps to realign prorities.

vivi, hi. thanks for your advise. i dunno wat's your story, but i guess, finding more things to fill up your life will leave u less time to think about wat he has done. my life is alot more colorful.... friends n family are equally essential to our soul.

Hi Doll, thanks for your reply. your replies look somewhat familiar... its like i already hv the answers in my head... perhaps im jus using my gal as an excuse to hang on to him. jus wat exactly am i hanging on to? i really dunno. i found out about his second affair. n no, i still hv not...

Thanks doll. indeed, my life has changed for the past 3 years. but, its mainly reactive change. I made up my mind to end my marriage, only to take him back again cos i still feel for him. I was so so close to that last step... BUT he decided to end it with her just in time. Now tat i found...

Hi Taurus, Thanks for sharing your stories. Like you, i hv problems with trust. I wish I can do wat powder does, not finding the need to check on my spouse's hp, email etc... cos once we see something amiss, we predict the ending based on our own perceptions, n act based on that. Powder...

How many times must a person cheater cheat to qualify as a serial cheater?

Im at the same crossroads again. its been a year, and im still here. SIGH. Went snoooping ard, n found him betraying me again. In fact, i shd know which direction to take. Just that, i hv too many excess baggage to carry. jus need to a timeline to execute my moves, n look for some reassurances...

Does he need to prepare v hard for the exam... so he does have something else to focus on meanwhile? if he is having exams, then maybe u cannot use this time when he needs to focus on his exam to judge? jus a tot. not sure if its irrelevant.

its phrased to generalise to warn or remind women to think twice about getting involved with cheats. It is also to my benefit to believe nothing is tat certain. In an affair, everyone suffers. And its never fair, cos its NOT a zero sum game. Cos for every loser, there isnt a corresponding...

all i know is, If a man cheats WITH u, he WILL cheat ON you. its in his blood. like the last scene in red cliff 2, at the end of the day, everyone is a loser. There is NO winner.

Is it really impossible to build the relationship ith him being in touch w TOW? Assuming they are really "just friends"?