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Hi Grace, I have been with her for quite a number of years. We are one of those break up and get back together cases. I guess after we patched back, the sex wasn't the same. I suspect it could be because I got together with someone with bigger boobs and the sex was just great. I have asked my...

Hi syvest, what is the way may i know? The mere suggestion of trying out any form of breast enhancement and I get the look of death from her.

Well, we did it recently. Can still do but somehow or other, I don't find it more enjoyable than sex with my ex. In fact, I did think of sex with my ex while doing it with my gf. I feel so guilty cos i know i shouldn't but somehow or other, sex with my ex seems so much better... Cannot...

G~gal, thanks for your advice. I know for a fact I do not have ED and my sex drive is pretty normal. I am going ahead because i feel that good sex is not everything in a marriage. I mean, after much trying, we can still do the deed but the thing is i don't have the desire to make love to her...

Bonnie, just curious, what are the implications involved when you had to return the flat to HDB? Does HDB return you all the money?

Baby Lim, I have been in a similar situation before. No doubt you are selfish but hey, we are all humans aren't we? To err is human and who wouldn't want to have their cake and eat it too? Not that I am encouraging such behaviour of course. As for starting a relationship with B while being...

To say this crudely, the heart and mind are willing but the anatomy is not...no idea why... Don't seem to get turned on. Need to try very long before i stand...she is frustrated, i am disappointed. I know its not me coz i never had this problem with others...sigh. I hate myself. Have no...

Trique, Doll and G~gal, thank you for your opinions. I do feel better after hearing what you have to say and letting my bottled up feelings out. I am not one of those who wants abnormally huge boobs in a gf but all i want is a B cup. I guess I will have to inform her of my preferences...

Hi All, just an update on my helpless situation. I hinted to my gf that perhaps she should try using bust cream or something. I was shot a very dirty look and I immediately made it seem like I was joking. Ladies, I suppose you will feel very offended if your bf asks you to use bust...

Hmm ladykirvin, i don't quite agree with your view that most men express their love and feelings thru physical intimacy. More for women actually. Yeah, i suspect it could be because i had great sex with better endowed women during the break that could have affected me. In fact, on some...

Well, I guess when we got together six years ago, the sex was alright. After the break up and the patch back, I guess things changed since we were with other persons. I admit that prior to the patch back, I had the most fantastic sex with another girl I was seeing. And yes, her boobs were...

G-gal, I have been with her for close to six years although we had a break of one year whereby we each saw different people. There were no such problms with the other people i saw during the break up. We got back together as we did miss each other's company i guess. The dilemma is worsened by...

Well, its precisely because i don't want to be superficial thats why i am deciding to go ahead with marriage. I really don't understand why i cannot seem to get turned on by her. We have tried and everytime its really frustrating. I have never had such problems with my exes. I do not know...

Thanks to all for your advice. Yes, I am ashamed to be superficial and I cannot bear to let her know how I feel. Double edged sword. I tell her, she deems me superficial and I might get dumped. I don't tell her, our sex life will go nowhere. I do love her that is why marriage is on the...

My girlfriend is as flat as can possibly be (cannot fill an A cup bra). I do love her but I have a feeling it is affecting our sex life. I am not sure whether it is because she is really flat or whether it is for other reasons but I do not get turned on by her and do not even look forward to...