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Hi Gracie, I've booked Holy Family church too! When is your big day? Can I check with you please if they are using OHP projectors (like St Michael church) or if they still have mass books (and do the mass books contain a wedding mass section?) My future in-laws go to Holy Family and I'm...

Hi Procodin, If I were to play Devil's Advocate, I would say that may be it's not just a matter of face, but also that they are concerned their son would be "hen-pecked" and "controlled" by you given his lower salary and education level and then...because of the ill feelings between them and...

Hi Michael, you are a most lucky man. U have a gem of a wife which most men would kill for. I'm happy to read of one happy amongst the many sad ones here. Yeah, the skeptics - cynical, bitter and jaded. The over-optimists - naive, idealistic and brash. Me? I'm currently a convert of the first...

Hi femme, That's so sad. I read Byran Wong's blog. I guess it's true. If only I had known earlier, I would have gone to his wake. May he RIP

Hi Inix, I'm with you. There are just many different kind of "smarts" - book smart, common sense smart, street smart, mechanical smart etc.

Hi Powder, I hardly think so. Just saw the thread dedicated to your goodself Hi Michael, thanks, I really appreciate your post. U seem to be managing well with your situation - keeping your head up and above the water - and u seem to have a supportive spouse too I guess that's what it boils...

U go, Powder

I am back indeed. Have been reading your posts too, Powder

Femme! Master Wang passed away!!!???! How do you know? I know he has a 14 yr old boy...what happened to him? Are you sure? please please do post!

Hi ggoldfish, I can empathise with u. I met my love when I was 18 after JC and he was doing his attachment in poly. After that, I went on to law school NUS but academically, he didn't do so well and was retained in poly for 2 years. So we ended up graduating at the same time. Of course, as a...

Milo on the rocks - Yes, we can reflect what we want and what we need but unfortunately we don't always get these. And how long do we keep searching? IT - very very valid point. The thing is the guy has stopped contacting her actively like before. Clear sign for her to move on as he already...

Hi Milo, yes, I guess it is futile and self-defeating. They r always quarrelling about the same things - honesty from him, his checking on her. Come back together, the problems are still there. Worse, he carries so much resentment towards her, very bitter and sarcastic...yet he loves her...

Dear Angel8ish, I am so sorry to hear of your situation. Something happened to make you totally lose hope...what must this guy to do my friend before she can SI XING totally? I want to get her to get a prviate investigator so that she can see some photos of him and another girl and then give up...

Oh dear. that is awful to hear, Powder. Bottom line for you is that she needs to walk out. Things will not change. The guy told her that much today - he said that with her temper etc, she is not what he wants and they will still fight. He said he can't forgive or forget everything she said about...

Powder, yesterday, she was crying hysterically and when she got home, she was so sick, throwing up and running a fever. Her younger sister prayed for her and that really touched her. She said she will not kill herself for him. Cos she realise there are people who love her. She is not married...

Dear Milo, Powder, Jean, Shir and Angel8ish, Yesterday there was a huge blow up. The guy was furious my friend had told TOW about him clinging on to my friend. He told my friend that she needs to show respect for what he wants and not to check on his things. He told her that TOW had kept...

Hi Jolin2007, you nailed it, I think. Self-respect and self-esteem - how is it someone who is a professional like her who is attractive (gets lots of male attention) and earns a high pay and comes from a wealthy background and is intelligent and successful can lose all self-respect? She has been...

Yup that I am. I don't know what to believe...I know the guy. He seems to be very devoted and reliable. So it is a big shock to find out that he cheated twice. He always pick her up after her outings, send her flowers and she adores him. Yes, they fight and she hits him out of frustration and...

Erm Powder, I am a girl I can understand her feelings of not wanting to let go because he has always been committed to her for 10 years - maybe he had other small discreet affairs behind her back but he has always been there for her, evenings after work and weekends. Now he has withdrawn all...

Dear Powder, What you are saying is that I should tell my friend to give up and move on? Not waste any more time giving any chances?