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    Should I trust or not?

    Haahaa....i m not predictable la...is a kind of feeling...n it became more confirmed when i saw the way my hubby talked.... hmm.......the smile is not easy...i didnt smile until so xin ku before...
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    Should I trust or not?

    my heart very pain....but i have to swallow it....n tell myself not to cry...bear with it...although i tell myself..they got nothing..trust my hubby..what he have told me..BUT my heart is damn pain...sob sob....wanna cry liao la...
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    Should I trust or not?

    Hey pple....just now, i was together with my hubby...his phone rang...he pick up...n he say hello hello...quite a few times...after that, from far, i heard a woman's voice...i knew was that woman...then my hubby..say he is driving..he is outside...then later he say, "i m with my wife.." after...
  4. J

    Should I trust or not?

    Haahaa....okok la.... :p ask ask only...see my thinking n u pple answer same or not mah...llol
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    Should I trust or not?

    but hor...one thing i would like to ask...i give him freedom, right? Who give me freedom...or as a wife, i shd stay at home....and only he can go out..all the while, he is the one using after work time or sunday with his friends...i m the one always stay at home....i want to go out too...but he...
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    Should I trust or not?

    wah...you very "shi qing hua yi"... I know what u mean... thank you, Junkie...
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    Should I trust or not?

    Opal - Hmm...orh..i see..what i mean is..i needed some time to change...now i m controlling myself dont see his hp...trying arr..LOL...i also didnt ask him abt that woman anymore...(in my heart, still got so many questions sia)...lol.. I also wanted to manage my emotions leh...but how arr...i...
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    Should I trust or not?

    after chatting with you guys, i realised my EQ very low leh..too straight le.. Opal...now you make me feel that myself really like a witch sia...LOL..stupid me...
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    Should I trust or not?

    u think it's easy to change...to me not easy to change, but i m trying...n trying to control myself...ya, i did mentioned to myself...love is not control...if really love him, set him free... i m not that...dont know how to say...i really jialat de leh..i dunno how to tell...i cant tell, is he...
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    Should I trust or not?

    Opal...actually i know i over controlled him..but i also dont want to be like that leh...i love him, thats why i like tat...shall i say jealous? or is because i have no confident in myself..that y i like that...? I also dun wanna like that..very tired de leh..LOL..i think these few days, i...
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    Should I trust or not?

    Denise - i can feel he is trying....now he told me some of his job matter, i try to listen as well...n give him advice...he told me ytd that he wanted to work in the middle of night for like 2 - 3 hours...then say collect those bins at $1 each...$$$ is attractive. but i told him i m not that...
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    Should I trust or not?

    Hmm...Rofthelper - guess this is the codes bah.. for the past one week, i have been crying n we have been quarrelled....from two days ago, my hubby...treat me quite well...i m still checking on his phone...but no calls from that woman..nor he call that woman...that woman works at orchard and...
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    Should I trust or not?

    guys...ya..my friend says i m naive too...i nv got really hurt before...as my hubby is my 1st bf...i take things for granted... its time for me to be strong...n be postive about myself..i got alot of thing to do...to improve myself..i will jiayou de... i am not going to dwell in this...
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    Should I trust or not?

    Evon - thanks....i m 28 this year...considered old mah? haahaa...hmm...ya lor...i just started to love myself...but in my heart, somehow...still feel a little inferior... Chocolatte - I will really say the dress is ugly..but no surprise among us...we will tell each other what we want for...
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    Should I trust or not?

    junkie - ya..now i tell myself...closed case bah...i suspect this n that, i will tired myself only...what's the point... SM - what is TS? I know i m not that good listener towards my hubby. Now i am trying to improve myself...but at the same time, i wont be asking le.. hmm..in fact ,not all...
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    Should I trust or not?

    Haahaa..Opal...i understand what u mean...indeed i dont have much confidence with myself...i m not pretty n plump...i dont make up...all the while i m like that..past incident was like 2 - 3 years ago... hmm...i agree with Chilli Queen. It can always start from a call...and slowly develop...
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    Should I trust or not?

    Thanks guys... Hmm....Opal, my hubby didnt say they talked abt work..he told me they r talking abt xin shi..I know i cant expect pple or my hubby to be like me..so open..frankly, i did talked to my colleagues abt my hubby..this is the only xin shi i have..the rest of the things we talked abt...
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    Should I trust or not?

    Denise - ya...i cant keep de...LOL...hmm...i will heed ur advise... Opal - actually i m easy...if in the first place, he tell me there is this person who he know...they talked n talk abt what...i m ok...really..the best is if i see her before....is just like reporting...so even if later part...
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    Should I trust or not?

    Denise - ya...i know trust takes time to build...it is really painful..to get betray by the one u trust n love...I learn to be calm arr...LOL Opal - no la..i wont go and look for the girl one...i will look for if i got the facts n evidence...n when this day comes...very straight..our...
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    Should I trust or not?

    Wah...Denise...what u says really make sense... I think we can talk openly...i guess he would prefer me to say it out instead of keeping inside...I try my best to keep my cool...LOL.. if i tell him that i m willing to listen to him..n i hope he tell me his problems..u think by saying like this...

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