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    My affair, the full circle

    "i am in this place now - regretting and remorseful - precisely because my ex was a very good man, just like you. he was a very good boyfriend/husband, to the best of his abilities." What is good may not make us happy. The heart sometimes works in strange ways.
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    Sell house during separation - need help.

    You and your husband are the legal co-owners of the flat. How's it that you will not be implicated if he breaks any HDB rules? You still want to tell on him to HDB? I am not saying he is right but seriously, you have to look at the whole equation instead of drips and drapes of it.
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    KTV girls n songs

    Powder, speak your mind please.
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    KTV girls n songs

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    Lazy Husband

    Is it because a spade carries some negative connotations for you? We should be honest with ourselves. If the marriage is in a certain state or the spouse behaves in a certain way, it is what it is. From there we explore what we can do, whether to adjust our expectation, change our mindset...
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    KTV girls n songs

    "I'm not gonna cite fiction...fiction is just fiction" May I say that though the book was fictional, it was very well-received even by critics and earned the author a prize (Pulitzer Prize) as it reflected how the upper-class in US lived in that era of time.
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    KTV girls n songs

    Much prefer the book of The Age of Innocence.
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    Devastated....Failed Marriage

    This song reminds me of Torn Guy and wife. A duet by Sandy Lam and ex-husband Li Zong Sheng. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vmph3GGfuSg Nice song.
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    Should I tell him?

    Beware of all possibilities when you put love to the test.
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    KTV girls n songs

    What is trust? Is it something you place in someone who does things you approve of, can identify with or can see/understand, like drink coke and keep you company; basically just staying in the comfort zone. Don't know since when trust has such a thin meaning.
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    Lazy Husband

    What do you think I meant then?
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    Lazy Husband

    " Strangely some posts that strayed out of topic like women has to remain sexy and beautiful and husband having another woman reminded me that there are actually many other good points about him which I have forgotten over a period of time. Because of that I feel it should be worth for me to be...
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    KTV girls n songs

    Is this really a simple matter that has got to do with "allow" or "disallow". If yes, you can try disallowing it if it pleases you and see if it works that way.
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    Devastated....Failed Marriage

    If in doubt, don't act first. The passage of time will give you clarity on whether you should reply or not, or what to reply with. Sometimes you can experience a total change of perspective like what is important now may no longer have an equal weightage later.
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    Should I tell him?

    It's one thing to be honest. It's another thing who you should bare your soul to. Make sure that he doesn't spread this in the church unless you don't mind the whole church to know about your secret. Churches are one of the best places for gossips and rumours to sprout. There was a...
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    Lazy Husband

    Ondergirl, you keep coming to his defence and countering the negative points we make about your husband. My conclusion is: You are merely ranting. I do not think you are seriously considering your marriage like you made us believe in your first post. You can either slack alongside him and...
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    Lazy Husband

    I have one question: Do you still want to keep the marriage and make it work?
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    Lazy Husband

    Now that you know he is such a man. What do you do? Some forummers already told you that it is not practical to expect him to change over a new leaf. In fact, the next best thing to do if you still want to stay married is to change your perspective of him, and stop being so negative.
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    Lazy Husband

    I did not make any conclusion about him but you did. You wanted a divorce. No?
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    Lazy Husband

    Temperament wise, I don't believe that just because you have a bad temper means it is necessary that you are complemented by someone who is pleasant natured. Such a combination may or may not work. Sometimes the bad tempered party becomes worse in temperament because the nicer spouse always...

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