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    Woes with my hb family

    60secs, tis topiz is stupid quarrel that started bceause one poster said he is having affair and not intending divroce and some people sympathise with him. other people like urs truly condemn his action, ask him seek divorce asap as he hurting his wife. those sympathise said dont nag...
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    Extramarital Affair: Truly in love with each other

    milo, care to tell me how powder exercised basic respect and control by using the f word? is that how respect is defined in this forum? :-/ ting yi, thanks.
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    Extramarital Affair: Truly in love with each other

    ok fair enough milo. yup, ting yi, this is ant's thread. sorry for hijacking it and repeating the same things. just think of the impact, ant. i've said all i have to say. wish u well.
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    Extramarital Affair: Truly in love with each other

    milo, everyone here is prejudiced. humans are inherently biased. at least i acknowledge my prejudices. others pretend to be objective, when really, true objectivity is not possible.
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    Extramarital Affair: Truly in love with each other

    milo, i did not use the foreign examples to prove how wrong ant is. i cited the examples to show sm, in fact, that having an affair is not akin to "telling a lie". that was what sm said. it's just a lie because ant could not deal with his feelings. is it just a lie? some lies have a...
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    Extramarital Affair: Truly in love with each other

    "Get a life instead of judging people in this manner." accusing others, but three fingers are really pointing at urself. think about what u've said to me and the other lady who posted. and check out powder's deliberately misspelt profanity. good god. u guys are really "non-judgmental".
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    Extramarital Affair: Truly in love with each other

    sm, are u able to appreciate that different people view marriage vows differently? some take their vows seriously, some don't at all, some do but flounder in times of hardship. if u can understand that, kindly get off my case. thanks.
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    Extramarital Affair: Truly in love with each other

    whatever, powder. i was just sharing my thoughts. and i wasn't intending to harp on the law thing. just felt that i had to respond to ur posts. i certainly do not feel that having an affair is "wrong" per se (i won't think less of a person who has had an affair), but i just think that it...
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    Extramarital Affair: Truly in love with each other

    powder, as i have said, if u read clearly, i am not saying that we should follow those countries. i only pointed out those laws to show that having extra marital affairs is something serious. everyone of us lies in our daily lives. that cannot be helped because we are not saints. but...
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    Extramarital Affair: Truly in love with each other

    sm, adultery is a chargeable crime in some countries. we just happen to be in singapore, where we see it as a white lie. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adultery#Asia even in the western countries, in some states, people can still be jailed for adultery. i am not saying that we...
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    Extramarital Affair: Truly in love with each other

    agree with what sm said. i think ant needs to ask, who is he trying to protect by continuing the lie? is it really to protect his children? his wife? his parents? or is to protect himself? for his children, divorce now or later, still divorce right? same for wife. same for parents...
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    Pls help a broken man...

    hdb won't repossess the flat unless u default on ur mortgage. since ur wife has walked out, sign the separation papers now.
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    Pls help a broken man...

    this person was in s similar situation. http://www.asiaone.com/Business/News/Story/A1Story20110709-288236.html call hdb and discuss. take care, lee.
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    Extramarital Affair: Truly in love with each other

    powder, i get ur point that not changing the status quo can be a decision in itself. i'm sorry that i sounded pushy to u. hmm... i suppose it's like ur friend calling u and tells u that he hates his wife, dislikes her, their marriage is loveless. u may tell him, try to tolerate lah. then...
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    Extramarital Affair: Truly in love with each other

    powder, no doubt things might happen differently from what i had suggested. true, his wife might commit suicide with the children, his mother might eventually find out, the girlfriend's chauvinistic husband might get so incensed that he ends up knifing her. the possibilities are endless...
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    I feel threaten...

    Why can't you rent a place together? Stay with parents or in laws?
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    Extramarital Affair: Truly in love with each other

    I don't think I'm being naive. I think it's just that the threadstarter prefers the safe way out. But the safe way is also the selfish way, especially if the women had given up their jobs to take care of the children at home. It's easier for older divorced men, no more kids responsibility...
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    Extramarital Affair: Truly in love with each other

    Lol, your 1 heartbeat comment is funny. National day coming. powder, the situation is such that it will never make anyone particularly happy. But as u can see from Jenny's case, I'm sure she will feel relieved if her hb can agree to divorce. So, I believe there is a better way to handle...
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    Extramarital Affair: Truly in love with each other

    Can we just take it she's going through a difficult time and let it be? Instead of saying that she's victimising herself. Her feelings can be understood.
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    Extramarital Affair: Truly in love with each other

    Jenny, I've read your thread. Sorry to hear that you're in the predicament of the wife, where your husband is having an affair but die die don't want to divorce. It's bad. Really sorry that you're caught in this, you hardly talk yet he still wants to hold on to you. I think if you can find...

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