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Sometime it is tough to understand why pple change suddenly but when they wanna change no matter how much we tried to hang on.. they will still slipped away like sands in the hand...

true that it may not worth crying over him.. but crying will assist us to release the emotions. if we did not allow such grieve out.. keeping it within oneself will eventually be bad for our body. so do give urself some time to pick up the pieces again. when u are ready to move on. ur tears...

hi maomao. as what sony mentioned. life stills go on. time will heal the pain bit by bit. if u wanna cry.. go on.. give urself a time to grieve.. but eventually u will need to get out of it and move on. my case is similar to urs. been together for 13 yrs. 2 yrs into marriage everything...

The Only Thing That Can Really Heal a Broken Heart is Time. Take Care...

snowstorm.. only one quote came across my mind when i see this thread...Until you make peace with who you are, you'll never be content with what you have.

Hi heartpain. All the Best!!! Try it with all your heart and may you and your HB will find a way to re-establish the r/s and make it stronger again!!! Really happy to see the note. Jiayou!! As what you mentioned, even if it failed.. you have tried your best and no regrets

This is nice thanks for sharing...

"a time to search and a time to give up,a time to keep and a time to throw away" Maybe this is the very chance for you to see the new world and connect back with yourself All the best for your "new beginning"!!

he seems to take you for granted liao :| think carefully before you ROM... you have to get your life back.. there is a chinese phrase wei you zhi ji xing fu, cai neng dai gie bie ren xing fu. wei you diu de qi zhi zi, cai neng gou zhen cheng fu chu" I am sorry I am not very good in hanyu...

Hi bearyhug.. yup.. it is indeed verypainful but i have to be positive.. it made me who i am today.. a stronger me oh the quote.. I forget where i got it..it is about a year ago.. I have been collecting quotes that helps me along the way.. i remember I just google on "quotes" for...

hi heartpain.. go for it go for the oversea posting!!! agree totally with miko.. trust urself... and see the world out there.. everything happens for a reason Jiayou!!! back to your hubby gng out meals etc.. oh boy.. is like a flashback to me.. same case here felt so loss then as it is...

Hi Zephon.. found this thread and realise how your story goes now. Be strong dear.. Find a part-time job and upgrade yourself. From what I am seeing here is that your HB has "accepted" that you have "accepted" his "close relationship with the other girl", and he is not willing to say...

hi heartpain Both of our cases have one very important similarity. The other half kept sharing with us on our differences.. and at least your case mentioned he wanted to leave.. for mine.. he is just hinting here and there but do not want to voice out or he does not even know what he wanted...

hi kelly I somehow agree with ene and kea.. he just not that into you. Just sharing my experience with you.. I have the same thot as you before with my ex-HB. The only difference is .. he does not have any job at all (frankly I do not know why i dare to take the plunge then.. I loved him...

Hi heartpain Glad that it gave you some encouragement.. during my ordeal then.. i tell myself.. if i get well ..I shall share with other ppple on how i piece my life back together. Recognizing is a good start. . would you want yourself to be in such a stage in the 3months down the road. 6...

Hi ladies.. I finally have the guts to start reading the thread in this forum recently and all the dark days of having HB telling me that "I do not know why we got married in the first place". giving me the "why are you bothering me" look. "taking the house as an hotel room". came flooding...

Hi heartpain I guess i was in the similar position like urs almost a year and a half ago. During that period, I was as loss as you were and wonder why is this happening to me? What did i done wrong? What could I have done to make it better? I thought time can heal the pain and the "loved one"...