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    Getting married young

    I asked my hubby if he will just allow me to sell it off, he said the ring which cost 8k will now be sold for less than 4 k. The depreciation is horrendous, I haven't really seen ring with stone really depreciate. More likely it was bought at artificially high price. The profit...
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    Too soon to get married?

    How could u possibly knows someone well enough after 5 months...u need at least 2 to 3 years before u can properly knows a person. There is no exact time duration to know someone. 5 months can be too short but it can be too long. How do you know even after 2 to 3 years you can know someone...
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    Vietnam Wife

    It depends on what you want from a wife...
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    Getting married young

    Kids or no kids, I still think car is a luxury.. well if you can afford it, why not.. But with the latest measures on car loan.. it is really becoming more of a luxury for more people.
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    Getting married young

    Age per se is not an issue getting married... it is the right mental attitude. If you are worried about the size and cost of the stone at your age now.. then I doubt your maturity.. They are many opportunities in your life later to get a bigger/better stone..
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    How to move on? Cannot get over the hurt and anger

    Scope has said: "If there is a choice, nobody will want to be unhappy. " But being happy is also a choice. We can CHOOSE to be happy. It is a conscious decision we can make to be happy and not be dependent upon other external factor.
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    How to move on? Cannot get over the hurt and anger

    "For guys it's really just pick up and move on and no point assigning blame? Then wouldn't it be very easy for men to marry their affair partners????" I don't think you understand at all. Moving on and not assigning blame is for our own good. It has nothing to do with ease of marrying...
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    How to move on? Cannot get over the hurt and anger

    Willing to accept and moving on is an entire possibility.. provided you want to. Our minds are limitless in its capacity to change but at the same time, we can also be very stubborn and refuse to accept what that is happening to us. Talking about it to other people in similar plight or to...
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    Kids to continue contact with ex after divorce?

    Sorry, another selfish mother that wants restrictions on child access.. How about turning the other way round. Assuming, hb has care and control - is once a week of access good enough for you. time with children is NEVER enough. Just need to compromise and balance. Give as much as...
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    IPhone user

    To answer the TS question: If you have access to the phone, you can email the the whatsapps conversation But be sure to remove the trail of the email.. And for the record, whatapps only comms with the SIM card/phone number upon registration. Once registered - it is tied in with the...
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    Positives of marriage?

    watching, I agree with your notion.. I don't think it is misplaced.
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    Court of Appeal

    If you don't trust your lawyer - thinking he has interest just to make more money from you - then you should change your lawyer. You did not share much about the judgement and "how it was grossly not in your favour" - very difficult to judge if you should proceed. Please note that having...
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    Positives of marriage?

    I don't see the need for compassion for someone stupid and yet argumentative Something I learn today. Stupid people cannot argue? Or stupid people can argue but we don't have to be compassionate to them? But this is puzzling leh.. you mean conversely we have to be compassionate to smart...
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    Divorce Lawyer

    teleph (E: That apart from the aforesaid, the parties shall have no other claims of any nature against each other in respect of .....). How to leave the decision to the judge, don't sign the agreement? Let his lawyer proceed with the legal action? Is it to my disadvantage if I don't sign and...
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    Positives of marriage?

    denise, There is no purpose. It it apply to you then yes, there is a purpose. If you find it redundant - just ignore it. It is just for people to "reflect" when they are dismissing people.. of course at the same time, I am in danger as well of "dismissing other people". Actually I want...
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    Divorce Lawyer

    If your hb is unreasonable.. well, what is unreasonable is difficult to ascertain. So unless you can tell us - we can give your opinion. Many a time, couple will think what they are asking is reasonable.. I know everyone wants the best for themselves and they will say for the children - but...
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    Positives of marriage?

    I think is presumptuous to judge her. But then again who am I to tell people whether to judge her or not?
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    Positives of marriage?

    Soisuka, wtf, what are you doing here ?
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    Underground Relationship

    vios, long time no see... still see you once a while here.. so free tonight?

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