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    Costs of Marriage - how do u spilt?

    Hi Jo, For me having a dec wedding is more because of my job, its the only time i'm free to do it! Anyway, like wat doll has mentioned, don't rush to do things because of a dateline. I understand the disappointment of having to push back your wedding. We initially targetted end 2008, but...
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    Costs of Marriage - how do u spilt?

    Hi Jo, Yeap, I'm getting married end of this year. Actually my wedding has been kinda a 2 yrs in advance planning. Like you, budget is a concern and both my fiance n me have just started working. So what you are going through is not uncommon =) Just need to compromise and discuss with one...
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    Costs of Marriage - how do u spilt?

    Hi there Jo, Seems there's only 2 ways to go about it. 1) Reduce your spendings. Things that can be compromised (e.g. MUST have banquet at only 5 star hotel), just go for a lower cost bracket. 2) Push back the date. At the end of the day, the wedding itself is but a 'show'. Seriously...
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    Royally played out

    13_yee, you don't have to focus on the negativity that you perceieve here. The fact that you keep fighting back is perhaps somehow at the back of your mind, you do know what some forumers have siggested is true, but because of you driving yourself in a corner with your thinking, you keep...
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    Royally played out

    Hi 13_yee, You are indeed a very sentimental and sensitive person to still think so much in his point of view after all he has done to you, but it is worth it? This man thinks nothing of breaking his vows to you. Your vows to him, which you hold so dear, what do you think they mean to him...

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